Should I continue to rent my space out? even though I am being pushed too far?

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Hi,question. I have a vacant master room which includes own bathroom and also private entry to the outside patio. We do not let them cook inside the room, but we agreed to share our patio fridge, grill and patio table for use. I originally agreed to rent out this room because my husband friend asked for a favor. I was mislead to believe it was a single women who was coming from overseas for schooling. It was agreed that she will share my new bbq grill, and spare fridge which we use to put the extra food during summer parties etc and for the kids to enjoy a cool drink during the summer. Last night she finally came over to move in, I was quiet suprise and upset (but did not say or express that). The lady is actually 7 months pregnant and her husband will be moving/ coming over pretty soon say in about 3 months, which will mean another person will be added to this. This will put the total number of people in that room to 3- which was not what I wanted. I planned on renting to singles only not a family. It is too small for that purpose. However, to increase my anxiety, my husband friend started asking for us to move the fridge to this new visitor end, which means we won't have a spare fridge anymore for the summer to use, his friend also requested my cable box to be brought downstairs- and that was my son's cable box, my new grill was also moved downstairs. So now when I need to bbq-I actually have to feel inconvenient to ask to use my own grill again. Well to top it all off, his friend wants us to be responsible for her meals, she does not drive, so his friend wants us to take her to the doctor visits, etc and take her to the hospital when she is ready to give birth. Since the room has private bathroom and private entrance to the outside, I prefer that she does not enter through our main door. I plan to keep her bedroom door lock on both sides so we won't have access to one another space. Then my husband friend has the gut to say that I am actually treating his friend like prisoner keeping her locked in her room. I was again offended because he mislead me and then insist on all these things. This was also discussed during dinner time and I was about ready to open my doors and say "nice knowing you but I think it is time for you to go home and if these are your policy take you friend and keep her at your place" but I bit my tongue because I need to respect my husband in front of his friends. I know it is not my husband idea but I am so heated up with this friend of his. I hate turning away a pregnant women especially since she justed arrived into the USA and she needs a place to stay. Lets just hope that it will go peacefully. She seem like a nice person, it is the friend that that I cannot stand. I also realize that we need to rent the room to help with the mortgage and medical bills for my daugther. What should I do, tell his friend to back off or tell my husband to tell his friend to stop it! I am quiet a reserved person so I don't like having strangers wander around my house wether I am at home or not. Yet his friend believe I am being mean for not letting the new renter roam freely around my house. Am I mean or cold hearted for being upset with this situation? Or should I dismiss it and give her chance because it is the guy friend who is making all these demands and not her or my husband!