I read it somewhere

@kun2349 (23464)
Singapore
June 3, 2008 2:16am CST
Love is giving your parnter a chance a hurt u but trusting them not to do so.. How do u feel about this saying?? Is it really true??
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@SomeCowgirl (32255)
• United States
3 Jun 08
I have heard this saying before. I must agree with it, because that is truly what it is. You walk into a relationship blind as you do not know the person or you may know him but you still do not know the outcome of what could happen.. yet you walk in, sit down and give them your all without a second thought because you trust them not to hurt you. I'm actually talking to my fiance's friend about this with my fiance.
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@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
3 Jun 08
It's just so complicated with love.. We wun know who will treat us good or bad, but to get involved in it whole heartedly b4 we can find out.. ANd more than often, we will end up with a broken heart because we opened up your chance to them..
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@SomeCowgirl (32255)
• United States
5 Jun 08
Yes but the reward is knowing that somewhere out there there is someone for you. Someone who will mend your broken heart and never let you hurt because of love again.
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@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
6 Jun 08
Yup ^_^ U'r right ^_^ THere will always be a reward after a failure.. hehe
@secretbear (19463)
• Philippines
19 Jul 08
hey kun! where did you get that? because i just used it a few weeks ago as my shoutout/tag line/heading (whatever other websites call them, but it is called a shoutout in friendster) in my friendster profile. ^__^;; i really like that saying because it is so true. when you love someone, you give them your heart, you trust them to take care of it, but at the same time, since you're giving it away, you're also giving them the chance to do whatever they want to it and that includes hurt it. love is really like a double-edge sword. on one side, you can be happy, on the other side, you can get hurt too.
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@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
20 Jul 08
LOL ^_^ I got it from a video, when i atttended a wedding dinner last month.. lol =D Yeah, it's very truth too, as we really put all our trust in our partner, to the extend of not knowing how to protect ourself anymore.. And so, whatever they do, it's very important to us, and even the slightest mistake can do alot of damages to the heart ^_^
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@secretbear (19463)
• Philippines
7 Sep 08
i agree. love is really like a double-edge sword.
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@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
5 Jun 08
i have heard dis saying a lot of time..n i do belive in dis saying...its true....wen you love a person who give you everything to your partner...n trust is the most important factor in love....without dis word its hard to survive in a relation called love...
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@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
6 Jun 08
Yeah, trust is very important in love.. Without it, it's much worse off than being frenz too.. With a relationship always on suspicion, how long can it last?? How much can each party take from their insecurity??
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
9 Jun 08
Ya ur rite.....i have seen relations where trust lacks a lot...due to which the relations didnt worked out...
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@steelkhan (177)
• Sharjah, United Arab Emirates
4 Jun 08
yes its true if you love someone with your heart and soul then you are giving them a chance to hurt you.
@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
4 Jun 08
How would u explain that??
• Sharjah, United Arab Emirates
10 Dec 13
@kun2349 sorry for this super late reply....if they cheat with u or leave u, then what will happen to u...so u r giving them a chance to hurt u..
@sophialin (2678)
• China
4 Jun 08
i agree with it.love is kind of competition.who loves first and more is doomed to be the failure. love gives the chance to hurt and being able to hurt another one just because you know clear that he/she loves you.
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@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
4 Jun 08
Yup.. LOve gives both equally chances to hurt each other, but the one who decide to hurt is themselves.. They cant blame love entirely for being hurt..
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@sophialin (2678)
• China
7 Jun 08
yes we can hurt someone because of love,but the same time we are hut still due to love.love is an interaction emotion.
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@poohgal (6848)
• Singapore
10 Jun 08
I totally agree. It does not only apply to love. It applies to all types of relationships. No human beings are infallible. All of us will make mistakes and hurt other people (either knowingly or unknowingly) at some point of our lives. Once you allow someone to get close to you, it's inevitable that one day that person will hurt you. When that happens, it really depends on how forgiving you are.
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@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
10 Jun 08
YUP ^_^ Very true indeed.. Be it frenz or partners, they will hurt u as long as they are humans.. Feelings do change and mood swings do come.. IF one happen to be at the wrong place at the wrong time, and that's it.. AFter which, it all boils down to how forgiving are u..
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Well,that saying applies to everyone who's in a relationship like me.There are times my boyfriend and I hurt each other but we trust each other that we won't do things that can hurt either the two of us.
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@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
6 Jun 08
YUp.. BUt most of times, the hurt is unintentional.. ONly sometimes, ple just wanna take advantage of things and thus will break the trust by hurting us badly..
• India
5 Jun 08
Everything is possible in Love and War.Accept whatever way you get from your partner,then everything will be alright,All the best,don't get disgusted,donot feel like hurted,by the most leave and go for another.
@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
6 Jun 08
As humans, there's a limit on how much we can accept.. And we have feelings, it's impossible not to get hurt.. BUt u'r right, when we feel hurt, it's best to leave and find someone whom will treat us better..
• Brunei Darussalam
4 Jun 08
Never blame love and your partner for all the wrongs that were made,even if we got hurt real bad,lets just take it as an experience that some people only get..we are happier this way..
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@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
4 Jun 08
Yup.. Just take it as a lesson learnt from the hard way.. and we humans, often can only learn from the hard way..
• China
4 Jun 08
I haven't been hurt by my boyfriend,then i don't believe it.
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@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
4 Jun 08
Everybody has got their opinions on things.. U need not believe it ^_^ Hope that your relationship will your bf will go on well and prove that this saying is wrong ^_^
@subha12 (18452)
• India
3 Jun 08
it is the thing taht i have heard too. but i think trust is the main thing. still in love many people hurts you in life. it i ssad.
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@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
4 Jun 08
Yeah.. Trust is the main thing.. It takes ages to build up trust and takes only 1 sec to destroy it.. And so i guess, trust is much more complicated than love..
• Brunei Darussalam
3 Jun 08
The more experiences we get,the more loving and lovable we are..i believe that to acquire a true love that never hurts,an ordinary person must learn the hard way of love first..so love is about taking risk,take that chance cause you will never know when will your true love comes....
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@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
4 Jun 08
Yup.. And so ple always say, 1st love is often unforgettable.. Because it's our 1st time experiencing something we din experience b4.. ANd it's truth too, we never know who is our truth love till we open up and take the chance..
@rsa101 (23552)
• Philippines
3 Jun 08
Although there is some truth about it. But it was relayed rather negatively that is why I don't find it cute or fanciful. I guess Love is all about trust but you don't trust those that would hurt you.
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@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
3 Jun 08
But in the 1st place, we dunno and wun know who is gonna hurt us?? In a relationship, most ple will be harbouring the hopes of not being hurt by our partners, but in the end, the person we trusted most often is the one who hurt us most.. I think that's wat the person is trying to say..
@ayessa (1586)
• Philippines
3 Jun 08
It's true! Some of us may even say to our partner "please don't let me be hurt" But deep in our hearts we are praying that the person we choose to love will not only cause us pain in the future. We all know that the reciprocate of love is hurt so that is a given fact that once our partner do something wrong we will be hurt and affected by it.
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@kun2349 (23464)
• Singapore
3 Jun 08
There's basically no way that a person wun be hurt.. It's only that hoe much hurt can a person take.. The more and deeper u love a person, the lesser the hurt u care able to take because they mean so much to u, and just a simple wrong action or words, can do serious hurt to the heart..