Do you wash your spouse's undies?

@dhangski (3194)
Philippines
June 4, 2008 6:15am CST
In my 10 years of being married, I haven't washed my husbands' undies. It's not that I don't want to but he doesn't want to. He said that it's his personal stuff. What he does is after taking a bath he washes it right away. I do the laundry stuff but never did he put his briefs on the laundry basket. How about you? For wifes:Do you wash your spouse's undies? and for the husbands: Do you let your wife wash it for you?
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44 responses
• China
5 Jun 08
i think your husband is great he has set an example for women's right i don't want will i do after i married , but until now i feel embarassed if the other want to help me washing the undies . i think i will do as your hubby did .
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@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
Thanks for your response. I think you'll be a great husband too when you marry. You have lot of respect for women. Keep it up.
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@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
5 Jun 08
of course i wash his undies...well your lucky for not washing it and your husband is so kind enough to do it by himself..its rare of its kind though...does he have a brother? joke ok..
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
LOL vanities, too bad he doesn't have a brother. He is the only thorn among the roses.... Thanks for sharing.
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@ambkeb (782)
• United States
4 Jun 08
HAHAHAHAHA....I read your post and had to sit for a second to let it soak in. Your husband sounds....a bit odd. LOL I have washed all my husbands clothing since we started living together WAY before we got married. IF he ever decides to do laundry, I am sure he would wash my panties as well.
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@mikeysmom (2088)
• United States
4 Jun 08
i do all the laundry. if i didn't it would not get done, plain and simple. no offense but i do think it is rather odd that your husband, the man you are intimate with, will not allow you to wash his underwear. does he have something to hide? just curious.
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• United States
4 Jun 08
I think your husband is a bit quirky. I do all of the laundry, stains or no stains, my underwear and his. He doesn't ask me to do them, but he's never seemed to mind, even when I'd first moved in and started doing the laundry. To each his own, though. I'd probably have to tease him mercilessly about it (not in a mean way).
@setroc (853)
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
i dont feel comfortable having other people wash my undies, im not married, i dont know if that will change when i already have a wife, but i wont mind washing a girlfriend's undies, i think i would rather enjoy it, is that wrong?
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@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
Hi setroc, I don't see anything wrong with that. Enjoy!
@senna9 (1666)
• Netherlands
4 Jun 08
i wash his undies. because i think that it is very strange if he has to do it himself. but if he does the laundry i also except him to wash my undies. and he doesnt botter. so a nice arrangement.
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
4 Jun 08
I wash it using our washing machine. I have tried washing it manually when we were in vacation! He has no rules about it..LOL! but, your experience is similar to my friend. The husband prefer to wash their undies and will not ask his wife to do it!
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@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
4 Jun 08
We have been living together a little over 3 years, and from the very start, all of our laundry has gone into the same laundry bag and I usually do all the laundry. It wasn't anything that was discussed, we have just always done that since we've been together. In fact, it's not anything I've every really thought much about until your discussion. There has been plenty of times that he has done the laundry.
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@luvstochat (6907)
• United States
4 Jun 08
I do all the laundry in the house. I wash everybodies unmentionables including my husbands my sons and my daughters. I don't think I have ever seen my husband do laundry I do it all.
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@GreenMoo (11834)
5 Jun 08
Not only do I wash my hubby's underwear, but I also search the bedroom floor to find it first! I think perhaps we would consider things slightly differently if we were doing all our washing by hand, but with a machine it is just a case of chucking it inside and pressing a button. Underwear is just like any other item of dirty washing really, and it's something that we all have so it's not to be embarrassed about between partners.
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@GreenMoo (11834)
5 Jun 08
When you say odd places I do hope that includes dangling from the chandeliers? The ultimate in sophistication when I was growing up was being so abandoned that your undies hung from the chandeliers. Unfortunately I've never had any chandeliers
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@ruby222 (4847)
5 Jun 08
I wash them for the both of us here..I dont see any difference in washing undies to washing anything else..but if I were to leave hubbys undies for him to wash himself he would be popping up to Peacocks every week to buy a new pack!!and I agree with the hunting thing...I find his in odd places..but after all these years im used to it!
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
4 Jun 08
Yes, when it is time for me to wash the clothes I do.. But he washes mines..
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@longbangod (1785)
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
Many times. I mean my wife if she will be the one to do the laundry she used to include my briefs, but that was long time ago. I also wash her panties. Since we have our helper at home and my wife's auntie, they are the one who are washing my briefs. Now I find it funny, why I let them wash my brief. I really dont wash it after taking a bath, I am too lazy to wash my brief hehe. OMG!
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@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
4 Jun 08
She does all the job in the laundry even my underwear. She said that she's in-charge of everything there. And as her partner in life, I even do the laundry sometimes. If she is sick and cannot do the job, her hubby is in charge. I remember the last time I do the laundry with our eldest daughter, the time that she gave birth to our youngest baby, that was last year in April. For almost 1 week, I have to be in-charge there because she undergone operation after delivery...
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• Philippines
4 Jun 08
I wash my husband's undies.He loves to see me wash his stains
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@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
Really? Stains?
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
4 Jun 08
Wow! Really stains!!!!!!!!!
@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
23 Jun 08
Yes, my wife washes all my underclothes. In fact, she washes everyones in the house so far as I know.
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@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
Thanks for sharing.
@teena22 (422)
• Italy
21 Jun 08
hmmm? i just washed everything at the washing machine. but i havent washed my hub's undies even once (by hand). it's the other way around. he got no problems washing mine when our machine breaks. hahaha1
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@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
22 Jun 08
LOL teena. Thanks for the response
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
good day.. for me it doesn't matter who wash whose. If my wife just gave birth or recrupriating I will cook, do the dishes, the laundry with her undies and everything, I mean she's my wife, me as a husband should help and support her. I don't find any fault in that and honestly It will be like a bonding moment with her that no doubt would strebghten our relationship.
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@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
Thanks for sharing. Helping each other really strengthens the relationship.
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
4 Jun 08
I washed my husband's even before we were married, lol. I find your husband's behavior a bit peculiar. To each their own;)
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• United States
4 Jun 08
I'm glad I wasn't the only one that thought this was strange behavior lol
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
It really is peculiar. He told me that it's the only private to him. LOL. Thanks for the response.
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• Singapore
5 Jun 08
hello sis,sorry for late responed to your post cuz i'm too busy in yuwie and scrable.LOL.well,washing husband undies? oh! yes, i do that everyday washed his briefs,i smell it first before washing it. Hmmm its stink! jokes.
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
LOL sis. Thanks for responding. You really do smell it first?