Someone tried to ruin my relationship with my bf.

@ieeko89 (1054)
Malaysia
June 4, 2008 8:58am CST
Am so freaking pissed with type of people. They been trying to breaking up my relationship with my boyfriend. I received this one number which is dont have in my list one day. I said hello a several times then she hang up. And then i received this message from the same number saying i have to back off from my boyfriend because my boyfriend is her's. So yeah, like i would believe? Haha. That is so typical man. So i replied says okay if that's what u said. Am like freaking dont believe her. And she get pissed! And starting to call me names. And am just keep laughing and say whatever you want to say. Then she said 'You're so dumb for believing in your boyfriend. You're ugly, what makes you think he would marry you someday ieeko? ' Okay, as she mentioned my name, i know she's someone that i know too. So i was like laughing again n say if am ugly then she's ugly too as she mentioned she's my boyfriend mistress. And she is welcomed to join my club named 'UGLY PEOPLE'. Then she's like giving me this one long msg, saying am stupid and blablabla. Am kissing with someone that is not in my relative. Okay! As she mentioned bout this, i remembered bout this one guy and one gurl talking bad behind my back in myspace. It's all because of this one picture my boyfriend kissed me on my cheek. Hello, we've been together since 2005 and what the heck are you thinking that we doesn't kiss each other? Stupid lame right? And then the boy and the girl get pissed after i give them my words and kicked them outta my friendlist. And i dont know where the heck this gurl gets my number from. From someone that i might know maybe. Whoever that person might be, she/he is someone that can't be trusted! Selling my number just like that? Double F;) So yeah, from there i know she's the same girl from myspace. And i said now that you mentioned bout that kissing picture, you just told me who you are girl. And ske kept saying am stupid blabla. She has no words to say to me anymore since she make herself caught:P*laughing out loud* She said bye at last, maybe because she felt so stupid. Haha, well she is stupid right? So yeah, nowadays people are so dumb, trying so many ways to ruin someone's relationship. Then i gave her last msg sounds like this 'Feel stupid? Go and practice more. You don't get me now;) Try harder next time. HA HA HA.' then she didn't reply my msg. Well i wont be surprised if she'll msg me again someday or do anything else to ruin my relationship. This type of people should just die in hell. Haha;) p/s; My boyfriend says, he is so gonna kill that girl one day. Haha, nice boo:)
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13 responses
@naaadh (217)
• United States
5 Jun 08
hi. these things happen everyday. if your in a relation the biggest problem you will face is people who are jelous or wanting to take away your love away from you. but what counts is that if you love him and if he loves you truly you dont have to be scared of stupid phone calls. cause we both know than no one can saperate you. And another thing is dont answer prank calls or threats. If someone sms, saying such things dont reply back. If someone calls trying to break you two do not answer or talk back. Just be cool and let the person know you just dont care. If someone calls my girl friend she wont talk back if its a prank. And i never answer calls from numbers i do not know. And another thing is, even if she thinks your ugly, if your boy friend thinks your cute thats all. Cause only for the person who truly loves you will find you beautiful even without your make up.
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@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
Awww;) That is so true. Yes i know. Maybe next time i'll do the same thing like you told me to do. And thanks for your last sentences;) It makes me smile. It's true and i hope you wont get the same thing as i get. And yeah, you and your gf did a good job:)
@taqinaka (429)
• Malaysia
4 Jun 08
ehehehe.well..im her bf...n i really wan to know who dat girl is..or guy...at 1st i dont bother much...but then when she txt me...n say bad things bout my girl..i cnt stand it...i scold her good.ahahaha.n she said sorry...but dat wont cure anything rite ?but glad its over..for now rite? heheheh.
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@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
4 Jun 08
Haha, yes, people, meet my boyfriend:) And it's good when he scolded that girl for saying bad words to me;) She called me b***h, w***e. Yup, sorry wont cure a thing:) For now? Yeah, we have to face so many things in future boo:) I hope we can handle this together.
@snowxue (72)
• China
5 Jun 08
Those people are crazy, dont let them bother you and your life, ignore their calls and msgs. Just go on with your life as long as you and your bf love each other, good luck and wish you all the best in the future!
• China
6 Jun 08
what? A guy? is he a phsyco? What a freak! Stop reading his or her msg and go on with your life! Wish you happy!
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
7 Jun 08
Snowxue, I just found out that the person who's been disturbing me with those silly msg and is my pet sis;| If you want to know the details. Read my other discussion. The tittle is 'PART TWO; It's actually my own pet sis who is trying to ruin my relationship;| ' Pffhhtt~
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
Yeah! Absolutely right. Am ignoring her now. And you know? She kept giving me msg and just now she told me that actually she's a GUY! And been pretending to be a girl. Like i would believe! Pathetic! ;|
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
4 Jun 08
haha ^_^ U did a great job there!! LOL.. She's just jealous of u and envy.. Maybe she just broken up with her bf or maybe her bf is not as handsome or charming as yours and feel that she deserved him instead of u.. LOL.. But she's also stupid to do that, because it's an immature way of handling things as well as being childish.. lOL ^_^ I cant help laughing to myself when i knew wat she's doing.. LOL ^_^ Luckily for u, your relationship with your bf is strong and also based on trust.. SO this whole thing dun affect the realtionship but instead make it stronger.. hehe ^_^
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
4 Jun 08
Hahaha:) Thanks kun2349! I take that as compliment:)) Yes, that is so immature way to do. And i just cant stop smiling reading your responded because it makes me feel much better when there's people who stand behind my back:) And i feel your support which is good and makes me smile:DD *smiling. Yes, luckily me and my bf can handle this situation. In myspace, to be frank, i put lots of great picture of me and my boyfriend. Maybe they get jealous because my bf is charming like u said. HAHAHA:D you are so funny, thanks!!:)
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Jun 08
ieeko how old are you, this discussion sounds like high school stuff to me. if you love your boyfriend then do not fall for the he said she said crap. but it does bother me that your boyfriend says he is going to kill that girl one day. no killing please. the two of you should just let this nasty girl go. do not listen to her at all.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Jun 08
thanks for best response much app;reciated.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
Am 19 this year. No, he ain't gonna kill that girl. Don't worry. He juts said that to make me feel better after what the girl been telling to me and my boyfriend. I know it sounds so childish but yet, she's threaten us so many things till we get pissed. But no worries. It may end fast i hope. Thanks for your opinion my dear Hatley:) We dont believe her at all, instead of that, we make her pissed by doing that and it makes her surrender.
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@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
8 Jun 08
Not a big problem;)
@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
4 Jun 08
What are we in grade 2? Come on now grow up and don't let these people get to you. This is silly already. I still can't beleive I read this whole thing. It was a complete he said she said and of course the childish actions. Better yourself and don't even bother about these people. If you and your boyfriend are cool about yourselves why are you listening to such immature people. Just by replying and letting them get to you as well you are acting very childish and immature as well. Be better than they are and move on with your life and ignore them.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
4 Jun 08
Hey there. Yeah, its true what you say. But if you get the same experience as me, you wont do nothing. Of course at first you will feel doubt a bit. And did replied her msg because she was reminding me to this one girl who threaten me before this saying she will ruin my relationship. She's been telling my boyfriend that i have other guy in my life *which is what she mentioned to me now that my boyfriend have other gurl in his life* So, yeah, just now she msg me. AGAIN, she was rude to me, but then it ended up she say sorry for doing this. And she's been smsing my boyfriend telling he should know about my past. And my boyfriend get pissed when she talk bad about me. Who's bf wont get bad if someone call his girlfriend b***h? And she said my boyfriend life was depending to my money and he's poor and all. Don't you think she's just over the limit? And lastly she told my boyfriend she was trying to make my boyfriend realise, but my boyfriend told her to back off and f**k her for trying to ruin our relationship which doesn't effect anything to us. Then again, she said sorry to both of us. But yeah, thanks for your opinion;) Maybe someday i'll get rid with this type of people. Thanks:))
@020788 (78)
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
Hi there. I salute you for what you did as how I salute myself the last time I also experienced something like this. It was not throught a text message though. An unfamiliar yahoo id just sent me a message that time saying things about my boyfriend. The account's username was a name of a boy so I thought it was really a boy. But along the way when we exchanged messages, I felt like a boy will never do like this and say this way. But anyways what that person was telling me was my boyfriend was cheating on me; that he has another girl other than me living somewhere near my boyfriend's place. So I was like that's kind of a nice guess.grrr! Then that stranger said too that I've been such a fool for trusting my boyfriend for a year and half now, which is true; and that unidentified person said my full name as well as my boyfriends, etc. So I wondered that positively this crazy who was bothering me was someone me and my boyfriend knew since he/she knew our details. I didn't believe that stranger but I was just so upset because I don't know who my enemy was. Good thing that he/she quit sending me messages, maybe got tired or whatever. I thought that the stranger won't be bothering me anymore but then the next day, the same account appeared in front of me sending me lewd messages now. Calling me names like I'm a s*u* and that my boyfriend has been relaying to a lot of people about our dirty secrets like how many times did we do the deed. This time, I didn't let it pass for her, I said that if I can't him/her down, which was what I would really do, I can sue him blahblah. I sort of threaten him/her too as a payback of possibly putting my ego to shame, which were false accusations. Then the stranger stopped. That was the time I blurted a lot to him/her coz I felt that I won the confrontation. Then after an hour a message from the same account flashed on my screen again saying what was my problem. Later on with our conversation I knew that it was the real owner of the account. I asked a lot of questions to him of who possibly knew the password of the account he was using coz someone had been attacking me for days and I wanted to know who that person was. He said a lot of different names which I don't know of until he mentioned his ex girlfriend's name who was - a friend of mine. damn! I was like out of energy when i heard my friend's name coz it was just unbelievable that of all people, she was a suspect and I admit, a good prospect to be the person responsible because she was a friend and she knew things about me and my boyfriend. I was so distressed with the infos I've gathered. I tried to investigate if it was really my friend. I saw her in school and tried to talk to her but she avoided me I supposed. I don't want to be bias so I let my close friend who little knew about what happened and let her judge my suspected friend. Eventually my close friend said yeah yeah, I think she's guilty coz she's acting weird. Well, I just asked my boyfriend to close the topic anyways it wasn't true. But the fact that my supposed to be friends was having a good time on us wasn't a good idea. I don't of what was really her purpose but I just leave it to her. Moral lesson here, don't trust much even a friend. hmp!
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
4 Jun 08
Hye there:) Thanks for your compliment. Wow, you've been experienced more than myself:) You must be so strong to handle this kind of situation when it comes to our own friend. Yes, we shouldn't trust much on our friend. Even our bff. They might stab us from behind which is that girl told me she got my number from a friend of mine. Hmm, i wonder who would that be. Anyway, If i were you am probably go and smack your friend's face. She must received her own medicine. I just can't face this anymore. I've been backtabbed by my friends many times. And somehow, i feel like crying at my boyfriend's shoulder just now. With fever that i have to face right now, this is just so not acceptable! However, he gave me strenght by telling me he wouldn't leave me etc. And am like hugging him. And now the girl doesn't bother us anymore. Maybe because she feel guilty. Hm but sorry wont change a thing. And my boyfriend just find out that the girl been rude to me and called me names as i told before. And he get pissed again. But then i said it's okay. Tomorrow we get her;PPP *laughing* naah, jk. I asked my friend who worked in maxis to detect the number. Hopefully i'll received some good news;) Anyway, thanks for your responded!:)
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• United States
5 Jun 08
OMG, i think that girl was looking in the mirror while talking you ;) obviously she was mistaken. anyways im gladf you handled this and stood strong. see the one thing that makes me laugh, over a picture were your boyfriend is kissing you on the cheek. I have got to ask. in what country do you live? obviously not the u.s . us girls kids boys on the lips like it just another thing we have to do that day LMAO. even when our parents say no. we sneaked or dod once in our life.lol I wish all the luck to you and your boyfriend. im glad you couls stand up for yourself and didnt take this out on him. if really it wasnt his fault. mabey shes just jelous...
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
Haha, yeahh, LMAO! She's stupid right? I lived in Malaysia;) And yeah, maybe she's just jealous for not having anyone in her life. And you know what? Suddenly she told me she's not a girl, but a guy. Pfhhhtt~ She think i will believe her? NEVER:D Anyway, thanks mikeswifey;)
• India
7 Jun 08
hi, all i can say is just relax, you would find a lot of these dumb people who have nothing to do in life but go around spoiling others. As long as you have a boyfriend you can trust and he can trust you that should be enough. Just ignore these people and they would eventually stop.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
8 Jun 08
Yeah, thanks for your advise;) Am lucky to have my bf in my life
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
Hi ieeko! Sounds to me that you will fight for that bf of yours. You boy must be very thankful in having you. I will just suggest you to please ignore everything you receive from this nasty people who wants to ruin your relationship. If you really do trust your bf that much you should not let yourself be affected with these sms from other people.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
Yeah:) Thanks Ayessa. All then opinions from all of you makes me much stronger to handle this kind of situation next ime. It helps me alot and am going to do exactly what you guys been telling me to do;) Thanks guys!
• China
9 Jun 08
Im really sorry to hear your such experiences.I feel ashamed for that girl.I think her such action just shows her weekness and struggling to get your boyfriend, coz through some so-called proper way she cannot make your bf love her,therefore she chose such stupid way. You should believe your bf coz if he really betrayed you,the woman doesn't have to so this. If what she said was true,she has got your bf and she is happy and make your bf leave you! Im not sure whether im clear,anyway,leave the woman and what she said,don't be bothered by that. Enjoy your life and love:)
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
10 Jun 08
Yeah, I don't believe to what she said. And plus, I really trust my boyfriend and he wouldn't do such thing. I just don't understand why the girl is being so desperate to break our relationship. And i just found out that the girl is actually someone i know and very close! My pet sis;') Well, betrayer i guess.
@Odamashin (434)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
hi good afternoon... you know what? you don't need to waste your time to that kind of girl..pathetic..just look the brighter side of it..as long as you love each other and has strong faith to god, your relationship will become stronger that no pathetic and envy girl like her could ruin it. Trust each other!
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
Yeah, Thanks Odamashin. Am happy to see all the supports from you guys;) Thanks. And yeah, i believe in karma. What goes around comes around. May them realize , that soon they'll get back what they've been doing to me. Anyways, thanks again;)
• India
5 Jun 08
i am appriciated to u.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 08
;)