Do you have joint economy with your spouse or partner?
By Emiese
@Emiese (994)
Sweden
June 4, 2008 1:23pm CST
I am curious about how the economy works in your family /relationship. I have discussed this with a lot of my "real life" friends, and there seems to be very many solutions as how to share or divide costs and salaries. My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years, but we have separate economy. I earn a lot more than him, so each of us get our own salaries. We do split the monthly bills like rent, electricity etc, but with food we don't really keep track. I pay most of it, but he sometimes pay. I do not really care if it is "even".
I have friends that have one joint account for all incomes and bills, and whatever they are doing goes out of that. Then I have friends that have their incomes separate but puts in an even share, say 30 % of their income together for joint costs. This will then mean that the person that earns less also contributes less, so it will be fair.
How do you have it worked out? Do you care, or do you just put it all together? How do you do with "personal" costs, is that a problem if you have a joint account, what does your spouse say then?
2 responses
@plumwish07 (4057)
• Indonesia
17 Jun 08
it seems that i just like you in this matter. what i mean in here, i also earn lots more than him and it means i pay most of bills per month, although sometimes he also paid for something. about joint account, we don't have it but as much as i can, i always tried my best to keep some savings in my account balance in bank
if household always concerning more in economic then i believe there would be fight each other about economic oftenly in daily
if household always concerning more in economic then i believe there would be fight each other about economic oftenly in daily1 person likes this
@chunshuibingdou (208)
• China
8 Jun 08
I havent got married yet nor living with my boyfriend coz we live in different cities and only can meet once a month or two. At the moment,when we meet, he pays most coz he get a good salary while I'm still s student.
I think after we get married,we should have seperate economy. We share the cost of family together according to our salary but spend own rest of the salaries by ourselves. Well anyway,this is just how I think,maybe after we get married,life will be different.I'm not sure coz life can never definited according to mind:)



