How will you know if your partner was cheating?

@Klarenz (261)
Philippines
June 5, 2008 7:14am CST
What if you caught your partner cheating on you? What will you do? Do you still love him or her after that?
9 responses
@Jampong (42)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
If i caught her cheating on me, i will break up with her in that split second for sure. My love for her will always be there but i will do my best to forgive and forget so I could start a new relatioship and new life with someone who is more deserving.
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Right! find the one who is deserving, but asked her first why did she do that. Let's get her side. You can always forgive the person who hurt you but you can never forget what they did. -thanks for responding!
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Yup I will definitely ask her reason for doing that. It is more easier to forgive but the hardest thing is to forget.
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Right, i do believe in that quote.
@chej18 (915)
• United States
13 Jun 08
Its easy to say you will break-up right away but then if you are in the situation it might changed your decissions.I always said also that once a cheater always a cheater.And only one time the he cheat on me then no regrets i have to leave him.But cheating is a result of failing relationship.I have someone who cheated on me.OK i hate him i feel like i cant forgive him.But i really loved this man it hurt so badly i know but then after a while you have to go on.Then wounds heal and you can forgive but hard to forget.Right now i am working on it.
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
Goodluck! :)
• India
12 Jun 08
i kill her.thanks for your reply.thanks for discussion,
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
Bad cheetah! LOL!
• China
6 Jun 08
Sometimes, I will keep silent and watch for one period if the lie is really worthy of breaking my silence. If it hurts me, I will have a serious talk with him and tell him my feeling. If he cares my feeling, I will still love him. otherwise, I will end the love.
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
So you were not giving him a second chance after what he did? me too, i won't give her a second chance because my TRUST for her was not there anymore.
6 Jun 08
If my boyfriend was cheating I would want to know, If i cought him at it literally i think i would go to prison because i would go psyco..lol...My boyfriend in the last month has started hiding his phone from me and changed all his passwords on the computer for his email and face book...I kinda worked out the new password and found emails from girls he walks with talking bout meeting up on nights which he told me he'd been out with his bext mate, He has gone out twice in the last 3 weeks and not come home...I know were splitting up..I feel heartbroken but when i ask him about it he says in a psyco and insane...nice! xx
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
maybe she fell out of love. :) -thanks for responding!
@Pescoe (101)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
i will definitely hate her for doing cheating...i don't think that I will ever fogive her for doing so...
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
if you really loved her, asked her why did she do that. getting each others side is the best way to fix things out.
• Cyprus
5 Jun 08
No way. I would break up straight away as there can't be trust anymore.
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
5 Jun 08
Hi Mr. tominschreiber i agree with you.. but i think everyone deserves a second chance right? -thanks for responding!
• India
2 Jul 08
Depends 1. What is motive behind partnership 2. Are you financially independent 3. Do you have children. ~~~~~~~~~~Loving is out of question, living with is after considerations of above us possible, for purely selfish motives.
@zer0charly (5616)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
with regards to your first question, How will you know if your partner was cheating? I will feel it for sure.. there's this so called "woman instinct".. and I believe that instinct will never go wrong.. What if you caught your partner cheating on you? of course the initial reaction would be to get hurt. and if I caught them on act, I don't know what can I do to the both of them.. I will for surely kill them.!LOL. I'll ask him lots of question.. [i]-why did you do this to me?, -have I done something wrong? -have I done nothing with this relationship.? -aren't you happy with me?[/i] -haven't you satisfied with me? will I still love him after that? I don't know. sometimes, even if you really love the person, and you'll give all for him to be happy, just one mistake will vanish all those happiness and love that you feel for him. and I believe that if you can do it once, of course you can do it again.. twice, thrice..so many times..