What Age are you planning to get Married?

@Klarenz (261)
Philippines
June 6, 2008 7:58pm CST
Marriage is a matrimony between people, marriage has a LOT of RESPONSIBILITIES. So what age do you plan to get married? How would you know that your ready for Marriage? Are you ready for the Responsibilities?
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15 responses
@SomeCowgirl (32254)
• United States
8 Jun 08
My Fiance and I are currently planning our wedding. I will be 21 when we get married. I know that I am ready to marry him because I love him with all of my heart and soul, he is the missing piece to my puzzle, and he is the one that I have always dreamed of. He is my perfect match, and with him we will conquer evil. For some people it is hard to know when they are ready, and even on the day of the ceremony you still have those butterflies in your stomach. I know that I will not be as scared of the commitment, because I live with my fiance and we will be planning the wedding together, we will not be doing anything to traditional therefore he will see me in my wedding wardrobe. So, to answer your question, Yes!
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@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
8 Jun 08
Well, goodluck yo your wedding then. Im Happy you loved him so much and i think he love's you too more than you'll never know. =)
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@SomeCowgirl (32254)
• United States
8 Jun 08
thanks for your well wishes, I think I have a pretty good idea by just listenign to him and even reading his responses here.
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@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
8 Jun 08
Wow! so did he know that your using myLot? Or your hiding your self identity to him so you can read his responses. lol
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@hellcowboy (7378)
• United States
7 Jun 08
Me and my fiance are currently in the planning stages for our wedding,which is set for late next year,so I will be 24 when we get married,and I know I am ready for marriage because I love my fiance with all my heart and soul,and I want to spend the rest of my life with her,and yes I am ready for the responsibilities because I know I can do anything with her by my side.
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@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
Awww.. How sweet. :) Goodluck for your upcoming wedding.
• United States
8 Jun 08
Thanks alot for your kind words,and I know me and her will be happy together,I wish you the best in your life,have a good day,and Happy Posting.
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
9 Jun 08
Oh i see, i see your fiance somewhere here. Goodluck and thanks a lot. =)
@jawaharks (590)
• India
7 Jun 08
age and responsibilities differs. im planning at the age of 27 or 28. currently im 23.
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
So 4 or 5 years to go, do you have any relationship right now? Do you have plan to marry her when you are on your target age? :)
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• India
7 Jun 08
right now i dont have any relation. im interested in love marriage only. But yet to get a girl. If i dont get one,i marry what my parents choose. what about you?
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@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
Well, as you can see in my profile is me and my girlfriend. Were planning to get married if we have a permanent job and lot's of savings. Im 20 years old and she's 22. I really love her so much, thats why im seeking for a job for our future.
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@vidhyagowri (1974)
• United States
7 Jun 08
I got married when I was 23yrs old. I wasnt ready for the responsibilities at that age. But my Mother in law helped me a lot to understand what a family is and how to tackle a difficult situation
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@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
Thats good that your parents are still there to teach you how to handle a family, im proud of your mom. Hope everything is fine with your family. Why did you get married at the early age? -thanks for responding!
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• United States
7 Jun 08
In India in most of the middle class families, the parents want to settle their kids' life early. I am fine and how and the mom of twin toddlers !!!!!!!!!
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@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
Oh i see, well goodluck to you and to your family. Blessings.
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@mialei23 (2386)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
I can marry now I think, I'm at the right age, lol. But frankly I'm not ready. I've got a lot of things to pursue, but we don't know maybe I'm just waiting for my bf to propose. =D
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@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
How long is your relationship right now? What if you bf propose to you later, tomorrow or on the next other day. Do you think your ready?
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@adrico (204)
• China
7 Jun 08
yeah,before i wirte this note,i thought a lot .hehe honestly speaking,26~30 will be fine for the marriage,i think before marriage there are many things to do,if we can't deal with them,how can get the new responsibilities,how can we be ready for the new family,new responsibilities.....so,i should deal with all the things before 26,then i can use all my love to my family,i am ready..hehe
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@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
So how old are you right now? How many years are left to plan for your marriage?
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• United States
8 Jun 08
I want someone to tell me what all these RESPONSIBILITIES are. I hear people talking about how marriage comes with all these difficulties and a LOT of RESPONSIBILITIES but they never say what exactly they are. Can someone tell me?
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
8 Jun 08
As long as your partner do his Responsibilities and also you do your responsibilities too. Like for example your role being a Mother and his role being a Father.
• United States
8 Jun 08
Where is it decreed that I'm required to bear children? I'm never having children. Now what?
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
8 Jun 08
How do your parents care about you? It just like that, as long you know how to take care of someone who is important to you. =)
@nanayangel (7881)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
Hi there Klarenz! Forget planning. In my case at least. I got married on my twentieth birthday. We're not ready for the responsibilities back then that's why I'm really thankful that it's all going well.
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
Is't hard to have a family at the early aged? Thanks for responding.
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
It is kinda hard but fulfilling too.
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
God bless your family. ^__^
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
i really don't know the exact age but as long as i earned and establish well my career i go on marriage. it is hard to get marry someone when you are on early age.
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
Right! have a stable job first and lots of money. ^_____^
@bond0077 (375)
8 Jun 08
i think some people just simply didn't get my blog,so let me put it this way,if i could count the number of people i know who waits for their career to be establish before they get married or have a baby etc..focus on their job and have no life,meanwhile the right one that might have played an important in their future,I.E.Hillary and Bill Clinton,as john lennon sang "life is what happens to you when you are busy making plans!"i know so many guys who after they have worked really really hard to established their careers but now are the loneliest guys around!just because you have a lot of money,house etc..does not garantee you are going to get the girl you want!because if a girl does not love you or is attracted to you,you will have the longest life of hell,my wife's father tricked her mother and stole her from the guy she truly was in love with and got her by knocking her up but 20 yrs later she left him for the original guy she really loved and they hated each other through out the 20 yr marriage,when someone is in love with you its not because you have a good career,or big house,expensive car,its because she loves you for you not your materials,these types of marriages last a life time like in the movie note book,or titanic,etc...i just hate the way people are set up to fail in their marriages or relationship!by programming them to think this way garantee you will get that girl you want by flashing your career sorry not in a high percentage of the cases!
@jarished (29)
• United States
7 Jun 08
im planning to get married like about 24 to 27 or when i see the right guy for me and have my own future lol
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
8 Jun 08
Haha. Im excited about that, can wait to see that lucky guy. lol
• Canada
7 Jun 08
I am currently in a long distance relationship and we are planning to get married once we live together and the time is right...don't want to jump right into a commitment that we might not be ready for. I'm 20, and he is 24. We'll probably get engaged sooner than later and then just wait until we think we're ready to be married.
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
8 Jun 08
Good plan! Hope everything is fine in your relationship. Because for me long distance relationship is very hard, especially when she's out of the country.
@Jampong (42)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
I am ready for the responsibilities, and i know also that there is no perfect marriage.. a happy marriage maybe there is.. So when am I planning to get married? On my 30th birthday perhaps? I want to be rich first, lols.
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
Thats too old for me.. im planning to get married when i reached the age of 23 to 25.. im 20 years old right now.
@bond0077 (375)
7 Jun 08
Actually marriage is not a lot of responsibilities,as most people think!we are all responsible for our individual self right?we are responsible at work,play,etc right?let me ask you do you think being responsible for yourself is a lot of work?let me tell you when marriage becomes a lot of responsibility actually,when you are with a partner who refuses to pull his or her own weight in a equal partnership of marriage,but this can happen in a relationship you are in right now i am right?the only difference now you could dump him or her right?and walk away!but in a marriage you can't,now there is the difference you see?in a marriage if you want a divorce you pay him for the rest of his life,and if you have kids with him and he has them ,you pay them as well right?now you see the problem ,of course if you are with the right guy who really loves you ,respects you and it works out being married is better than being alone or with a loser,as long as both partners take their own duties seriously work,commitment to the spouse,and plan for the future being married is the best!
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
Thanks for sharing your thoughts man, i do believe too that plan first your Marriage is the best.
• Canada
7 Jun 08
I was twenty-five and my huband was sixty one. No kidding! I don't think there is any right age for people to get married, I think it is wheneer both people are ready to make the cocmmitment.
@Klarenz (261)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
They say "Age Doesnt Matter" when it comes to love right. So how was you and your husband? He's older than you how do you handle that?
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
Im 32 years old and im planning to get married maybe next year. And im ready to settle down and take the responsibilities of having a family.