A good listener is always a wise person

@ssh123 (31073)
India
June 7, 2008 8:36am CST
A wise old bird sat on an oak The more he saw the less he spoke The less he spoke, the more he heard Why aren’t we like that wise old bird? I do not have patience to listen to non-sense most of the time. What about you?
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
7 Jun 08
Hi ssh123! Neither do I have the patience to listen to nonsense also. I have much patience before and I could listen as much even on things that are nonsense and things that don't usually interest me when I was younger. But, when I got older and older, my patience to just listen diminished somehow. I guess, I feel that time flies so fast that if I listen to just anything especially nonsense, I am just wasting precious time. Take care and God bless!
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
8 Jun 08
You are right. Due to body conditons and aging, we tend to be more restless. But this can be overcome to great extent by conducting exercises and also through meditation. Your analysis of the topic is very good.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
11 Jun 08
Your response has been given Best Response. With regards.
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
Thank you for the BR. It is always nice having my response appreciated. Take care. God bless!
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
8 Jun 08
maybe because we are human.we cannot compared to the bird!i am a good listener but depends to the topic is it is about politics sorry i dont like to listen hahaha but i know talking about politics is our future thats all they say..
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
8 Jun 08
Was your profile conspicuous by its absence all these days or you introduced now. It is nice. Yes, every citizen should take part in the politics and voting. It is their right.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
8 Jun 08
yes just now!thank you!
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
9 Jun 08
*smiles* This is me for sure. I talk very little and am a good listener. That's what my friends believe. I kind of take in all drawls, grievances, rants and hurts of the loved ones. They come to me for advice. But, as you have said, it does get annoying to listen to people who would not change no matter what and only would complain day in and day out. Thanks.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
9 Jun 08
It is nice to be adivsor. Because to advise good things to others, we reform ourselves in the process!! That is my experience. Thanks for interesting response.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
9 Jun 08
it may be. but that person may be wise, but for sure listening is also part of active communication. you can only be active communicator when you listen actively and also talk effectively. i try to stick to it.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
11 Jun 08
Very well said and thank you for your response. How are you managing discriminatory boss?
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
I think so because a good listener absorb the detail or words from the speaker it will transmit through the brains quickly. Yes it is true, the less he spoke the more ideas he have when he listen. Me, i am a listener more than a speaker. I like to listen to other people's problem and ask question when they are through and they i learned from them.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
14 Jun 08
That is a wise thing to do. Thanks for your information and participation in this topic. Good day.
@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
9 Jun 08
I think myself a pretty good listener. On most things I would much rather listen than to talk. You can find out much useful information just by being a good listener.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
9 Jun 08
Very true and I am glad you are a good listener. Thanks for responding and have a wonderful day.
@as2006 (5040)
• Israel
7 Jun 08
Once and even in this days when we say OLD we mean to an old person in age right!? But the truth is that how much more the person is OLD that much more he/she are wisdom.So there is much wisdom in your proverb.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
8 Jun 08
Yes you are right. In India people say that the vedas may tell some lies, but proverbs will not be telling lies.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
7 Jun 08
I am always a good listener,when it comes to my friends, relatives and partner. BUt, like you when I'll encounter someone who talk with no sense, I can't see myself staying longer for the person..I can't stand to waste my time. So, it all depends on the situation,person and topic actually!
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
8 Jun 08
Yes you are right. It depends on the situation, person and topic. But all said and done, in the present day world, I feel it is better to be alistener than being a speaker.
• United States
13 Jun 08
I am with you on that one. If it's foolish, don't talk to me and this is coming from a person who has a lot but only to a certain extent.