What is wrong with him??

Cyprus
June 7, 2008 1:20pm CST
I know that you may not care, but I just want to talk about this, and unfortunately I am all alone and have no one to talk and I feel reeeeeeeally bad! I understand that when there is football, some men are supposed to get crazy watching it! Ok so now it's EURO whatever. I don't mind that my guy wants to hang around with his friends to watch the game and have some beers. But I don't get it! Why does he have to be there hours before the game, and just "prepare" for the f-game? I am home all day, and I am really so angry. I am supposed to have fun on my own, but the thing is I don't have many friends (long story). I am so sad
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anawar
@anawar (2404)
• United States
7 Jun 08
eftychiap_ Are you married to him? Have you experienced this "guy thing" before? If it's a long standing tradition and women are not included, I don't see where you have a choice other than accepting it. Does your guy know how you feel about this? If he does, and isn't going to change_ Can you answer the questions I asked? I don't want to confuse you with suggestions that don't apply without a complete picture of what is happening.
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smtrego
@smtrego (181)
• United States
7 Jun 08
I am right there with you. Advice about relationships is not easy to give without knowing a few specifics. It really does matter if they are married, have they discussed it, what he would do if the tables were turned, etc.
anawar
@anawar (2404)
• United States
7 Jun 08
I guess we'll just have to wait and see if she replies_
Palmerhusky
@Palmerhusky (843)
• United States
8 Jun 08
mind you this response is coming from someone that doesn't care about sports myself. but i think the reason for this is that many women don't like sports. so the men feel that their wives don't really want to be included in something that going to bore them to tears while they have fun. Also i think that perhaps he wants some hangout time with his friends without you there, no offense meant by that statement. see those of us that are married (not me...got close but it didn't work out) love spending time with our wives, but we also need away time too to spend time with our friends that we don't necessarily get to hang out with all the time, just the guys as some would put it. I would say let him have his time and perhaps you take the time to reconnect with your friends. Perhaps have your own party of sorts, or even plan to go to a movie with your friends ahead of time. Thats what i would do.