An unsolicited advice to a broken hearted person

Hiya pal , one thing I am not short of in my life is love , I have been married to my best friend for almost 48 years , We have 3 brilliant sons and 4 beautiful teenage grandchildren , I still have my parents who sadly both have Alzheimer's , so yes my friend love IS SPECIAL xx

The end of a relationship means the beginning of a period of mourning and healing for both people. If the break up was mutual both people will experience a period of adjustment where they are getting used to no longer being together. If the break up was not mutual the person who ended things may be dealing with guilt and feeling that they may have made mistake. Thanks ^^

That is good advice. It reminds me of that old adage that it is better to love and lost then never loved at all. Even if our love is unrequited, the fact that we loved that person shows that we are human. Without love, the world becomes dank, and life loses its meaning. The more you love, the more you grow, so do not worry if that one rejects you, there is a better one waiting around the corner.

Jhordie I am a very lucky widow who was married to one man for 34 years and loved and was loved, he never broke my heart ever.he was my friend and I was his, and we loved each other madly and we were really happy we shared all most everything and were lovers and best friends and would never hurt each other ever. I did bet all my money and never regretted it once. my dad did not like my marrying him but that was beside the point at 31 I knew my mind and my love, my hubby was 37. so we were old enough to know what we were doing.

Definitely correct! Aside from that that is your choice. You did what you want when your there so there's no suppose to point fingers and say that you love them more. If you have done something in your life don't blame anyone because it's your choice.

what a very nice advice. lol..I've copieed it and share it to my student who had just had her heart broken. Her boyfriend has a new girl, after 5 years of going steady. I keep on cheering her up everyday telling her that he's not worth of her tears. What I've learned so far, is to enjoy love as it comes, and the heartaches that i've gone through were teachers to make me stronger, stand up and not to do the same mistake again. And hope for the right one to come, and by that time we are ready not to commit the same mistake again. Enjoy life, life is short anyway. ^_^

it is really a nice thought. if in any breakup people can think this way, i can guess it will make life happy.atleast not that much bad a swe take it. there are many lessons to be learn even from failures.

That is just the right way of thinking how we could ahre our love. Love should be unconditional and we should give it freely. I just wish that many would follow your advice I wonder how beatiful this world would be if all of us would think that way.

I know this will help a lot of people who are broken hearted this time! Thanks for sharing! I am glad I found my dream man who is my partner now!

well to me love is the best thing in the world. some view it as a gamble as it's win-all or lose-all. but for me, i look at it as a chance to spend a great time with someone i love. maybe at the end of it we didn't manage to stay together. but think about all the great time we've spent together. it's really more than worth it already. falling in love itself is such a wonderful feeling. i agree that it's never a loss to lose someone who doesn't love you. cheers ;p

Hi jhordie, welcome to mylot and have fun. It is a good advise with nice thinking and words. I agree with you that is not your lost to lose someone who doesn't love you but their lost letting someone that loves them go away. Love is not easy to find and who that let it go is a idiot. When some person don't give the worth that love have don't deserve be loved. Thanks for share and be sure that it will be good for someone here. Welcome and cheers.

I like your point of view on love. It is a very nice point of view. Love is a very wonderous thing isn't it? Have a Great day.

[b]You are right. Love is like a game to be played between two people. Tere might be a loser, there might be a winner. It would be good if all players win. So that everyone is happy. It's better to love and lost than not to love at all.[/b]

Hello my good friend, jhordz... Haha. I've had my heart broken a lot of times and I do have kept that in mind. Excellent advice. I'd probably say the same thing to a broken-hearted person. Thanks for putting this up!