do you share all your secrets with you friends???

friend - friend playing in the rain
India
June 8, 2008 10:07pm CST
well, friend is someone who gives us a helping hand when we are in need..though i have so many friend i don't share all my secrets with them.its not that they are not trustworthy but they are not mature enough to keep that a secret. somethings are there,which i only share with them . i think after our parents they are our biggest relief.isn't it. i don't know about you.do you share all your secrets with your friends???
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48 responses
• United States
9 Jun 08
I have one friend i tell everything to...the others are on a only if they ask i will tell the truth policy.
• United States
9 Jun 08
I only have one person that i trust my secrets to.That is my husband. But I rarely tell my secrets because ive been burned in the past by an ex best friend. I hate it when someone tells me a secret, i feel so uncomfortable,and I do not like to give advice.
@mialei23 (2386)
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
Yes, I do share my secrets to my friends. But if its really confidential I'm afraid I'd rather keep it myself. There are certain things that we don't have to spill it out because we might lose something in a blink of an eye.
@dpk262006 (56704)
• Delhi, India
11 Jun 08
Yes, I do share most of secrets with my dear and trusted friends. Sharing secrets help as stress buster for me and I can have their invaluable advice on my secret issues. I think, I have some very nice friends, who always keep my 'secrets' with them.
• India
11 Jun 08
m open book 2 all my frnds..........bt sumthings r nt meant 2 b shared.......wich i keep it as a secret!....if keepin a secret cn save sumone's lyf i wudnt think even once b4 hidin dat thing 4m d person/frnd!!!!
@acdc0805 (981)
• United States
10 Jun 08
If I shared ALL of my secrets, I don't know that I would have many friends. LOL I tend to be a private person, but sometimes secrets are better left unsaid!
• United States
10 Jun 08
I am an open book and usually too trusting. I don't have many secrets to tell most of the time and if I do there are a few friends that I would trust with my life. They are trusted and true.
@plumwish07 (4059)
• Indonesia
10 Jun 08
not all of secrets and not with all of my friends. only the friend who i trust and close with to share about my secret but as i said before, i never receal and share each secret with the same person if i think that the secret better to keep then i will keep those secret and not need to share with anyone
@elisa812 (3031)
• United States
10 Jun 08
I don't share everything with my friends. I am pretty careful about who I share certain things with. Of course, like you said, it isn't that I don't think they are trustworthy, but there are just certain things that are very private and I feel just much more comfortable keeping it to myself.
@harrish (126)
• India
10 Jun 08
ya... of course.. i do share all my secrets with my friends.. because according to me they are god's gift .. friendship does mean enjoying in life... its actual meaning is to share all our feelings both joy and sorrows .. i trust my friends and they also reciprocate their friendship by giving arms when needed.... so i feel they are the only source for us to share our secrets in life..
@yoz_43 (46)
• Philippines
10 Jun 08
Not all and also it depends on how much I trust the friend. If we go long way back then there is a good chance that I could share my secrets with them. But even though there are still some secrets I keep for my self. I don't really share much with my parents because I think they are conservative.
• Philippines
10 Jun 08
good day.. I really have a hard time sharing my secrets to anyone, even to my best friend. Secrets for me is like a weak spot that when revealed exposes you to danger. call me paranoid but even friend even the best ones may change through time and no one can tell if they'll turn on you and expose you darkest secret. Since I don't divulge my secret I don't expect my friends to divulge their's and in all honesty I don't want the responsibility either.
@AdrianX (30)
• Philippines
10 Jun 08
Well, I'm an open book to my friends. I share all my secrets with them, even those that are very personal. It's what makes me unique.
@TLo1717 (11)
• United States
10 Jun 08
No the only one you can trust is your self!
@ryozen (92)
• Philippines
9 Jun 08
It's not good to share all your secrets to your friends. In fact, you have to be selective too when sharing your secrets because you don't know how it might affect your friend's perception of you. You also have to keep some secrets to yourself because you need to have something to treasure by yourself alone that only you and God knows.
@Amit15 (18)
9 Jun 08
I have a lot of friends..but there r very few with whom i share my secrets...there are some sad times when u need smone there to share your secrets..this gives the relief...but there r always sm secrets which dont share with anybody...u want to tackle them yourself...
@pakkiu (24)
• Singapore
9 Jun 08
not really
• United States
9 Jun 08
I used to think that I could tell my best friend anything! I was wrong!!! My friend had been going back to someone and "talking trash" about me everytime I'd say something. I can't stand her! I have one other friend, and thankfully, she knows what it means to keep a secret!
9 Jun 08
ya i always share my screts with my friends .in the sense i dont have any secrets between my friends and me.i think friends are god difts to me
@faith210 (11232)
• Philippines
9 Jun 08
Hi antony2best! My friends are trustworthy and I know that they are loyal and faithful in the friendship we share. However, some things are always better left unsaid. I do not always say everything what is in my heart or tell my friends every detail that is happening in my life. Sometimes, I just keep it to myself. It is better that way for me. Take care and God bless!
@snel27 (48)
• United States
9 Jun 08
My 3 best friends i've known for 16 years so they know pretty much everything about me. Although not everything. There are times i've only told one of them about something just for the simple fact that i dont want to hear the others over react. But the most important things i've told them all because it's nice to hear 3 different opinions. My friends are great for advice so when i tell them my secrets its like my own little therapy session.