People with disabilities

United States
June 9, 2008 5:11am CST
Do you think people who are disabled are treated differently or made fun of in anyway? I myself have spina bifida and i can say i think on occasion have been treated differently or have been made fun of for it. So does anyone think that this happens regularly? Have any of you experienced this in anyway or know someone who has?
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
9 Jun 08
I think sometimes they are treated differently but only because of lack of informed information on how to treat people in such cases...there are some people who do have disabilities that are so independent they don't want help and can be rather confronting to people who want to help them...I believe there should be more education in this area...
• United States
9 Jun 08
I think you're right about that. People seem to treat things they don't understand or fear differently. Thats very true as well. I can be that way i really don't like to ask for help its nothing personal against the person helping i just rather be treated like a regular person. I wholeheartedly agree with you there should be more education in this area.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
9 Jun 08
I can understand how you feel but maybe you should look at it when someone helps you, you are not only getting help but you help them feel good in the preocess and educating them and others around, I think it is nice if we all help one another as we all have disabilities in some way it is just in most of us the disabilities are not visable...
• United States
10 Jun 08
Thats a very good way to look at it. I never really thought of it that way.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
10 Jun 08
I feel terribly bad when people treat physically challenged people with sympathy and not empathy. I think, our outlook to be changed big time.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
10 Jun 08
Thanks dear.
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• United States
10 Jun 08
I think you're right.
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@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
9 Jun 08
I think theres cases where differences should be accepted and provisions made for the differences...like handicapped parking and wheel chair access....BUT people with disabilities shouldnt be treated as not people or even given "Extra special" treatment. I don't think that those with learning disabilities should be allowed to interrupt those without's class time. If they are being disruptive or not participating so bored...there should be another area to take them to to learn what they can learn.
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@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
9 Jun 08
The comment about the learning disabilities stems from the fact that my sister has a little girl (our cousin) with down's syndrome in the class and When the teacher is trying to teach the rest of the class math or something else She will be throwing tantrums or yelling and not being quiet/respectful of others.
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@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
10 Jun 08
It would be more beneficial to the students. Sadly the local school here doesn't have Special ed classes as theres only the two kids (both in the same grade) that require them They get teacher aids instead.
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• United States
10 Jun 08
I agree they really need to be in a special needs class where a teacher can spend more time with each student.
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29 Jul 08
It owuld be very good to think thast eveyone with a disability would be treated as equal to someone who is fit and able,but there are always some very silly people about who will poke fun and try to hurt the disabled,and i am so glsad that you havent had to overcome this hurdle,the world at times is a cruel place,and there are some people who have no thought for anyone but themselves.
• United States
29 Jul 08
Yeah it is unfortunate that there are people out there like that who will treat you different just because you are different from them in some way.
@eihdra (3115)
• Philippines
9 Jun 08
hi, timothy. I have a son who has spina bifida and hydrocephalus, so I know how it actually feels when people make fun or treat you differently. It happened to my son and is still happening and I really cannot understand why such people would go to the extent of teasing a disabled person when they already know that having a disability is already demoralizing for them. Sometimes there are really rude people around us who doesn't care much for people like my son & you. I am very angry at those kind of persons because I can sense how my son feels whenever somebody teases him whether in school, the mall or in any other place. And how they look at you as if you have a very contagious disease! One time, my son came home crying because someone from school pushed him, just because he cannot run fast and their team lost the game!! He bumped his head in the pavement and what made me really mad was a bigger kid did it!! Before I enrolled him in that school, i already informed all the teachers of my son's condition. It's a small private school which only houses about 30 students, so I also informed all the parents and kids during the orientation. Once, during family day in school, some parents laughed at my son when they saw him running during the game,they said he run and walks like a duck! They didn't notice me at the back. But the nerve of those people! I didnt do anything at that time because I dont want any trouble and I dont want to further embarrass my son, so I kept quiet. But I stood up and walked infront of them and glare at them, just to let them know that I saw what they did. I hope that people will look at disabled persons as equal beings. They may not be able to do what normal people can do, but still they are persons to be respected. As for you, dont mind them. Your world doesnt revolve around them. Make a difference. Show them that even with a disability, you can surpass every trial even better than normal people. Always hold you head up high and chin up. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. Prove to those people who looks down on you that you can make it in the big world. Do not indulge in self pity because there is nothing to be pitied about. Don't let them step on you. Look around you and you will see that compared to other people, you are better than them, in your own special way...My heart goes out for you and I pray that soon they will find a cure for this so that no other children will suffer...God Bless..
• United States
10 Jun 08
I am sorry to hear your son has spina bifida like me and that he is treated so unfairly sometimes. I don't understand it either the only logical explanation i can come up with is people fear what they don't understand. I can imagine how he must feel when he sees or hears someone making fun of him. Wow your poor son i am so sorry some kid did that to him. I hope that the kid was punished in some way for what he did to your son. As for the parents who said that awful thing about him one day karma will bite them for their actions. I think in the situation you did the right thing by just glaring at them and not saying anything. I agree and hopefully some day we will be looked at as equals and not anything else. Thank you:)
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• United States
9 Jun 08
Yeah, I think that happens sometimes. I have bipolar disorder and nobody treats me differently until they find out, then they seem to treat me with kid gloves, so to speak. People act like I will explode at any moment and some are afraid to speak to me after they find out. I've never been made fun of because of it, but I am treated differently. It's almost like some people are afraid of me. That's ridiculous, but it's the way it is. People fear what they don't understand!
• United States
9 Jun 08
Yeah i know what you mean. I've got several friends who are bipolar so i'm used to being around it so i guess i know how to handle it better. I think those who treat you like that probably don't really know much about what bipolar really is and all that. That is so true that people fear what they don't know.
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
26 Nov 08
I don't treat physically disabled people any differently from able bodied people. Every person in the world has feelings. Wheelchairs come in so many different designs these days. I have an 18 month old son with spina bifida. He can sit unaided and crawl around. One of his legs is weak so he won't be able to walk. He has a shunt inside his head. He needs catheter care. He is a lovely little boy and everyone that meets him likes him. I am sorry that some people have been cruel towards you. Good luck in the future.
• United States
11 Dec 08
Wow he has the exact same problems i was born with. I hope that he never has to deal with anyone treating him any differently because of his disability. Some people can be so horrible towards someone just because they are different.