My Bitter past

Philippines
June 9, 2008 9:02am CST
I was so much inlove with this guy when i was about 19 of age, i gave him my everything and i thought everthing is all right with us, i thought everything is perfect.One day i just found out that he cheated on me, i felt so sad and down, i thought that w/o him i could not leave but i've found out that life w/o him is much more fun and exciting. i realize that he was just part of my bitter past... now im moving on and im more happier. anybody out there could gave me advice of being more wiser in love???????
3 responses
@rrdj71 (696)
• United States
9 Jun 08
Small piece of advice... Don't EVER let your life revolve around a man!! A lot of us have made the mistake of putting a man on a pedestal and then when they let us down we think that they are ALL the same!! It is really our fault for putting them there in the first place. I know that betrayal is the worst thing that can happen to a woman and it does bring down our self-esteem but once you get over it, it allows you to become stronger and usually NEVER wind up making the same mistake twice.
@jonesy123 (3949)
• United States
9 Jun 08
I'm glad to hear you were able to move on and be happy. Unfortunately, even with the best advice, it could happen again. We are all only humand and love is blind. Yes, you should be more careful and examine your prospective love more carefully before giving it all. On the other hand, when you are in love you hardly notice the negative stuff, lol. You will get wiser and more mature, and eventually you will find THE ONE;)
@spalladino (17921)
• United States
9 Jun 08
I'm glad you're moving on and are happy. As far as advice for the future, take your time, don't rush into anything. Get to know the person he is before falling in love.