How do you discipline your children at home?

@lilycool (135)
United States
November 2, 2006 6:11pm CST
In USA, there is a fine line between the right ways to discipline kids -to keep children in line with your moral standards- and physical or verbal abuse. Especially with teenagers, they’re very smart and they always try to test your authority at home. Should I take away their privileges like cell phones, TV? Give them curfews? Criticize them until they cry uncles? What is the most effective way to teach children nowadays? I have no clue.
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@sbeauty (5865)
• United States
3 Nov 06
Teenagers are tough to parent, no getting around it. Don't criticize them whatever you do. They are still very unsure of themselves even though they try to behave otherwise. You don't want to make them feel any worse about themselves. They already think they're fat, ugly, unpopular, etc. My preferred method of dealing with teens is to try and reason with them. Make them feel like you trust them and that their opinions matter to you. Explain your reasoning to them and listen while they try to explain their feelings. I guess what I'm saying with all that is that you need to do everything you can to keep the lines of communication between you and your teen open. It's up to you to be calm. You're the adult, and you aren't battling the hormones and new feelings they're dealing with.
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@Tanya8 (1733)
• Canada
3 Nov 06
Great answer!
@macubx (11414)
• Philippines
3 Nov 06
if i would have kids in the future.. im gonna punish them by giving them something they love and taking it away, Nyehehe
@lilycool (135)
• United States
4 Nov 06
Just wait until you have your own kids. It's not an easy task to discipline children. We try really hard to be good parents, but we always have doubts about how we can teach them the life values AND also make them happy.
@kdarrell (1562)
• Canada
3 Nov 06
How I discipline my kids is when they were younger they go into their rooms for a time out. When they get older they get grounded from going places or they get something taken away from them for a limited period of time.
@kids91911 (4363)
• United States
3 Nov 06
I figure if they don't want to do as told then they don't deserve privileges. We take away (what we call extras of life)extras. They are not doing to die if they don't have them and sooner or later they will learn.
@candaceb87 (1362)
• Canada
4 Nov 06
my children are 3 years and 3 months old so i haven't had to deal with that yet! i would say take their privileges away and punish them if they do not listen!
• United States
4 Nov 06
Skylar - This is my little Skyman
I have a 4yr old..he is a really good kid. he listens very well..but when hed bad...hess soo badd!!!!! lol..Time out works like a charm..he cant stand sitting still so its a real punishment for him.I have also taken his very fav toys..His HOT WHEEL CARS..for instance i took them away onjce for a day..and he never did what he did ever again..or his playstation..but his cars are his life righ now lol..he plays with them all day if i let him..but if we are out and he acts out...i will strap him in the cart..he HATES THAT!!! but ys know whats funny? I have ever only spanked him 3 times in his life...and trtust me..if you know what he did u wouldnt judge me for spanking..but that was so long ago...but all i have to do is hold up my hand..and he stops..people would think i beat him and i dont!! honest!!! and no i didnt spank him hard when i did..but i thank god everty day foir him..and ZI am blessed with such a great child..