Should i tell her i love her?or i will hide my feelings for our good friendship?

It is really a hard time you are experiencing.But I think you should tell her your real feelings sooner or later.Otherwise you will feel pity if one day she becomes the wife of others.Try to be self-confident.Maybe she has the same feelings as you do.

sorry if i tell you this,but for the sake of friendship you should not tell her.Especially if she has a bf right now,your friendship might be ruin...i've already experience it and im not saying that i dont like him but the point is im happy with the relationship we have as freinds,when he said it to me i told him im sorry and that day on he didn't even smile nor talked to me again. He always make sure that we have a gap in our work place, but it's your decision and if your happy with what you will do and make you feel at ease so be it...Godbless

Ooo, ooo, LOVE TEST! To find out if you two have the same feelings for each other, start taking her out on more dates and asking her questions. Ask her if she loves the man that she is with? Would she give up her dreams for him? And this better be honest. You can tell sometimes when a person is not honest. I knew that I was in love with the man I am with now when I started questioning myself, and when I got jealous with the girl who began flirting with him. Luckily, my boyfriend was not interested in her, so I was free to have him. We have been together for eight months now.

two words for you.....YOU SHOULD!!!

go n just propose her

she has already told you that she has abf and also that she is looking for commitment,what are you waiting for either she wants to make you jealous to see yuor reaction so find out how they are hitting it together,dont hide your feeling, you will get hurt for no reason,geting jealous and sick at seeing them together,she might just take you as an ordinary friend which you might not like,so be a man and tell her how she feels about you,or also tell her that youhavae agal but hes giving you lots of love and see her reaction.kilimanjaro.

she has already told you that she has abf and also that she is looking for commitment,what are you waiting for either she wants to make you jealous to see yuor reaction so find out how they are hitting it together,dont hide your feeling, you will get hurt for no reason,geting jealous and sick at seeing them together ,she might just take you as an ordinary friend which you might not like,so be a man and tell her how she feels about you,or also tell her that youhavae agal but hes giving you lots of love and see her reaction.kilimanjaro.

go ahead and tell her how you feel,you can only die once,be bold she might be feeling the same way about you but she is too shy to voice it.at worst you will continue your friendship.www.achieversideas.com

This is a situation almost everyone goes through. 1. She already has a boyfriend. She may or she may not be happy with him but then that's not your business anymore. 2. You don't know what's best for her so don't decide for her. 3. The 2nd point means, she deserves to know how you feel. 4. Telling her may cause a lot of awkwardness, so you must also BE SURE NOT to put pressure on her. 5. Remember you're telling her because she deserves to know, not because you want to take her away from her boyfriend. 6. Be clear that you have no other intentions other than letting her know because she is your friend and she should know. When you've finally told her, you both talk about what should happen. And then, whatever the consequences might be: (she may either choose to be with you, stay far away from you, OR she may ignore that fact and still continue being your friend) YOU MUST ACCEPT IT. And you must be a man to know that even if you have feelings for her, you must also take care of yourself and your heart. So if she doesn't want to be with you romantically, don't be a martyr and a masuchist. Move on, yet keep that special friendship both of you have. Good luck!

My current girlfriend (of 9 months so far) was previously the best female friend I've ever had and we've only gotten closer since. I think you should tell her how you feel, if it doesn't work out how you want then at least you can't regret not trying.

Tell her.

Ropsie: I want to say to you frankly youre an idiot because from the beginning you needed to tell her. anyways now that your in this situation tell her how you feel. And I know for sure that the other guy don't know her as much as you do and there must be something she likes about you, And if you tell her and she love you she will break up with the other boy. and be your girlfriend BUT if she doesn't say anything back, there's a lot of other girls outside and perhaps you mistook a good relationship with love. Tipsie: I think that this is heart-breaking because your in doubts and that feeling is something cruel, crueler than anything, I love someone too and he doesn't love me back And that eats me evryday inside BUT I'm happy because I have the support of my dear friend ROPSIE, she gave me support in all things, And if the girl loves you like I love ROPSIE I think even if she doesn't love you she'll still be your friend And if not so, we'll be here for you(me and ropsie) we're not lesbies just very close friends hahhahahhahhahhahaha with all our love, Ropsie and Tipsie

Oh,you're a pitiful guy.Why don't you tell her when you found you have fall in love with her?In my opinion,the girl love you too.But she is waiting for your courting.Now,i think you should tell her your feeling.In spite she would not come back to your arms,you will not regret for this.Please remember,don't miss the chance.

well, in my opinion and from my experience, if you don't say something at least one time then you will regret it for the rest of your life. If you really feel that way about her, then don't miss your shot. Take the chance.

i think this situation is quite common. i have seen this happennning to many. in this case you should have told her earlier before she chose her BF. may be someone very special waiting for you. best of luck.

Hi, You should tell her, so that one day you will have no regrets. I think if she dont love you you can be still friends again. thanks

Hi nujrem.It must be frustrating and seeing the girl that u have a crush on is already with another guy.Its ok nujrem.I know its hard to let go but to me its better if u just let her be happy with her new bf.Maybe someday,if GOD decides that u and her will get together someday,then it will happen.If it makes you feel better,just tell her the truth and say to her that u respect her relationship and will not try anything to ruin her relationship and u still want to be a good friend of hers.She will understand.Feelings can't be controlled.The feeling of love comes naturally and u really cant control it.Anyways,its just my opinion.Sorry if it doesnt help.Cheers.

You can express how you feel for her that would be cool and just see how she responds but don't tell her you love her yet its a little early for that.In my personal experience I've learned that if you wait to long to tell the other mate how you feel that yall eventually go into friend mode where the other person doesnt see you any longer as someone that they'd date but a valuable friend so only you know where you are on that note good luck Im pulling for ya

Now that she's already taken you have to be careful in choosing your steps in telling her what you feel. First, you have to tell her in a way that nobody else but her will know. Second, don't expect that anything good will turn out from confessing to her except for the fact that you finally expressed your love. Tell her that you want to tell her this but you're not expecting her love in return. If she loves you and the two of you are meant to be then the time will come for the two of you to be lovers so just wait and be patient. Show your love to her in a discrete way and not too showy that will offend her boyfriend. Support her in every possible way but don't do things that only her boyfriend should do or else it's an act of trying to steal her from her boyfriend which is not good. If there's no progress then let it be, don't go self pitying that you don't have your love. Live your life, achieve your other goals because you can still live without her in your life. There are countless souls out there who need you more than she needs you. But of course, be mindful to what she feels too because you might also lose the chance of having her permanently in your life.

You need not to worry about,chinese people ususlly used the argument that the solid love between two people needs the fate.Maybe both of you have deep feeling on each other, but that girl choose a different boy.That does't mean you do not have his best,that just because of the fate.Maybe you can not accept the fact in a short period of time,but you have to maintain long-term view,there are also lots of good girls waiting for you in the world.