confused relation!

Difficult question to answer. This is the question where I am really double minded. I dont think it bad that I love 2 persons equally simultaneously. ut at the same time I would note like at all to share my loved one with some one else. So, fianlly I would suggest you to not to accept it at all.

hi.. friend ..you are confused a lot.. one cannot LOVE two people at a time.. may be you are confusing urself with love and friendship... yes .. you can have two or more intimate friends.. but not two lovers... so please try to judge yourself... find whom you love and whom you think as a friend...

I don't think there is an equal love you can share with 2 different people. If you love someone it's always there..maybe if you are having an affair with someone that you think is love might be just lust. I wouldn't want to share my love one with someone..It will be either her or me.

i dont know what your reaction should be, i would suggest leaving that person, thats a little masochistic dont you think, sharing your loved one with another person, why are you okay with it, if your loved one cant realy choose between you two, do the choosing for him or her, it will be painful but with time you can move on and find someone else, its not healthy being in a relationship like that

this sounds stupid

i dont think that is possible.even you're loving two person at the same time,there's must be one of them that you love more than the other one.for me it will never be equal.

I don't think that a three way relationship would work very well. You could be confused, or perhaps infatuated with two people, (this is often confused for love) but if you truly love and are in love with someone...Then they are the only person you have those feelings for and no one else can even compare.

A dilemma...of course you can't choose both. It depends on you. Is anyone of them is open minded? Let's say if you go out with mr. X, mr. Z will still keep in touch with you no matter what. In some cases, that person leaves you heartbroken and it could be permanent. In other words, the relationship with him will be awkward at some point and you will stop meet him. Does both know each other? If yes, you will loose one. In this case, you will have to stay friends with both if you want to keep the bond. if they don't know each other, you are free to choose.

Hi alifya!I totally object in having a relationship with two person at the same time.I think that person who is not ready to give up either of the two is selfish.He/She doesn't think about the feelings of the two people who she tries to maintain relationship with.If i was the one who have to share my love with someone else,i would say to that person to make up her mind now and if she can't,beat it.I prefer i go rather than waiting and being hurt.Just my opinion.Cheers.

I think that such relations don't last. Some problems occur. You cannot share someone. If this happens to you then you should tell your partner to decide one of you. It is not possible to love two people at the same time. 1 person comes before the other person. Then why are you not being loyal to that person. What is the problem with him that you have started loving someone else !! Be loyal to your partner as far as possible.

Hi I agree with you. In this world nothing is important than self satisfaction. I do not believe in any relation. Nobody is going to scarifice his or her life / attitude / feelings / etc for anyone. So why to worry about others. Carry on without any problem whosoever is weaker will leave in between. Dont regret for that also. Assume that nothing belongs to you.