Come On Ladies.. Fess Up..

see.. i dont get the need for the practiced compliments ahead of time. if had been me.. idve taken a look at you, said dewd.. thought you said you were getting yer hair cut, it doesnt look any different. rather than go auto pilot for fear of offending for not noticing something done. in yer case, idve been upset over the "pretending" same as you did. mal changes his appearance often.. either a dye job or a buzz cut, whatever (he shaved his hair clean off once and i nearly killed him for it) and i will notice the drastic change.. but i dont notice if hes decided to spike it with gel, or just leave it shaken. there are some folks who get all pissy and insulted if theyve decided to pull their hair back rather than leave it down or viceversa and they dont get accolades of compliments on the change. or theyve done their nails and it isnt noticed with lots of ooooh`s and ahhhhh`s. it is those behaviors i was talking about. what is fundamentally wrong in their damaged psyche to make them NEED this sort of attention??

LMAO, Tee. Ahhhhh, 'the look'. I love 'the look'. It works soooo well. It's funny, my man is starting to try to give me 'the look', too, sometimes. But he just can't do it near as well. I've had a lot of practise. Neat, how we evolve and become more similar simply from being around each other for so long. I like to be noticed, but since my man has slacked off in that dept, he hasn't been getting as much 'nooky' as he would have liked. The attention just makes me feel like he notices me because I am his special someone. If he doesn't notice anyone else, the least he should do is notice me. But he doesn't notice anything unless it is major or I tell him that I want to show him something I changed. So, if I tell him I changed something, then it is obvious that I want the attention, so he gives it now, at least then. But on that note, I think I will do my red henna again. It is time.

ok.. that i will give you. something huge going unseen is something to get a little upset about. one minute youve got hair down past yer butt..the next minute yer practically bald.. yeah.. i can see why THAT going unnoticed would be an issue. nothng like being completely invisible huh? i was refferring to those females who stomp their feet and hollar "you didnt even notice my new earrings!! you dont love me! waaaaaaa!" drama queens. theres a big diffeence tween what you had done, and that ..;nod;..