Do you have any family heirlooms?

@worldwise1 (14885)
United States
June 10, 2008 2:28pm CST
I might be taking liberties here, but I consider anything that has been handed down in the family to be an heirloom. These items don't have any intrinsic value to anyone else(or not), but they often mean so much to us simply because of sentimental value. I feel fortunate to have a few items passed on to me by my mother including a very old rolling pen, My grandfather's pipe with the holder, her Bible that she always carried to church, collectible dolls, and assorted knick knacks. From my aunts I have a huge Family Bible with Stand, a nice Oriental wall plaque, a large hobnail milk glass vase, and china figurines. I also have an iron and a clock from my late uncle. As I said, these things might hold little value to someone else but they are a symbol of my connection to family to me. What items do you have that you consider family heirlooms? Would you part with them?
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@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
10 Jun 08
Yes after my grandmother passed away. I recived her birthseone ring. My birthday is 2 days after hers.
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@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
12 Jun 08
Yes I do and I always will.
@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
12 Jun 08
And I'm willing to bet that you cherish that ring, Shaun, as you should.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
10 Jun 08
Glass Plate photo of My ancestor - image of one of my ancestors on a glass plate
Hi worldwise..yes, I have a number of "heirlooms" from my family...for instance I have the cat's eye ring which I wear all the time that belonged to my great grandmother's brother's wife...I have two porcelain dolls that look like they came from the Civil War era, two porcelain handled slotted spoons that I have no idea how old they are....a number of glass plate photos that look like they're from the Civil War period..must be photos of my great-great grandmother???? I still have the christianing gown I wore when I was baptized that was handmade by my great-grandmother and must be well over a hundred years old now I have one of the glass plate photos here
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
12 Jun 08
That's an awfully nice photo, pyewacket! You are very rich in heirlooms. Ever thought about going on Antiques Roadshow?
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
13 Jun 08
Thanks ever worldwise for the br...what is an antique roadshow...never heard of that..
@alienstar (5142)
• India
11 Jun 08
Yes, it depends one ach individual as some maynot like it and anyone like me will definitely like it as it is nice to have old things of ancestors to be used by me when so amny new things are there in this era, this old thing will really take me to old times which is according to me golden times isn't ti?
@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
12 Jun 08
While it is true that there are some who desire no connection to their past, alienstar, I believe that most of us need that link. I value the old things even more since we have become largely a disposable society.
@dloveli (4366)
• United States
11 Jun 08
Unfortunately I have lost all my heirlooms in a fire about two years ago. For those who are fortunate enough to have memories store them well. I miss being able to look back upon my family's history. I now save everything. We lost everything from baby books, first teeth, hair cuts, preschool, and school activities. I had to start all over again.I must say that my friends and family helped by giving us what they had of my children. The nicest thing was when I got a call from my daughters school, (she was in 5th grade at the time), they put together an album of my daughter and her accomplishments, as well as report cards. I save everything now and store it correctly. I make sure that I scan and save all photos, papers, or whatever else, and keep the memory card in a fire proof safe. I also. am looking into safe deposit boxes. I will never be put in that position again. THanks dl.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
12 Jun 08
I can imagine how devastated you must have been, dloveli! Luckily you were able to regain some of those precious memories. You are very wise to store those things correctly now.
@aplaza (630)
• Netherlands
11 Jun 08
There is a part of me that likes nostalgia. But I have learned to keep it under control. My parents had a large (like 4 1/2 or maybe even 5 ft in length) rosewood coffee table with quite a history to it. They'd picked it up very cheaply because there was a minor flaw in it. If you didn't know about it and nobody pointed it out to you then you really wouldn't know even though it was in plain sight. Anyway... Then they moved and actually found somebody who wanted to buy it. Later they moved again and the same guy wanted to get rid of that table and gave it to them. For free. Basically this was the table I associated with my youth. No matter how many times we moved, no matter how many different couches or other furniture we had this was the table. Of course some of the stories associated with it's use are funny to us as well. So, now that you know this, you will understand that when my parents informed me that they were getting new furniture (what a surprise!) that I said it was too bad they'd be letting that coffee table go. And we talked about all the memories that were attached to it. Now mind you at no point did I say anything about liking the table or even wanting it. Well you can imagine my surprise and chagrin when one Sunday my dad turns up at my house with "The Table". There's no way I could tell him that it wasn't going to look good with my stuff. There was no way I could say to take it back and let it be chopped up for burning in his fireplace. He was totally convinced that he was doing me a huge favor by giving me such a wonderful heirloom. Believe me that I got a lot of flack from my friends about this monstrosity. A few even took to it with steelwool and tried to scrub it to an inch of it's already far too long life. My mom had waxed it for so many years that even three young men in the prime of their life couldn't get it off! Well after a number of years I did part with it and I'm quite content to just have the memories and a couple of good stories to tell about it.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
12 Jun 08
That's a very funny story, aplaza, but I think it would have been much simpler if you had just told him you did not want the table. Also, it might have made for an interesting cushioned bench or hassock with a little makeover(I learned this through watching HGTV for many years).
@ottster (93)
• United States
11 Jun 08
My mom is a pack rat, I think most of the stuff is junk not necessary heirlooms. She acquired most of it from her mom and dad. I look and explored and I can't see anthing of value. I do see lots of trash to me that can easily be pitch but she kept it in her term "just in case they need it". Piles and piles of crap she kept.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
12 Jun 08
Well, ottster, there is that old saying that one man's trash is another man's treasure.
@weemam (13372)
10 Jun 08
I have my great grandmothers black jet necklace , My grandfathers sunday school prize ( dickens) my favourite aunts watch , and my MIL watch , like you pal I treasure them xx
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
12 Jun 08
I agree, weemam! I could not imagine being without any kind of connection to my past.
@carolbee (16230)
• United States
13 Jun 08
I have a candy dish that belonged to my deceased mother-in-law. It's china and is really interesting looking. My favorite item is a coffee grinder from the 1800's that was my grandmother's. My mother gave it to me after my grandmother passed away. I also have something that would seem so stupid to others. I have one tennis shoe that was my father's last pair of shoes. Just after he passed away I brought it home from the nursing home. I keep it in the garage. My husband thinks it's crazy but it's a part of him I just can't part with. My dad and I were very close and I was devistated by his loss.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
18 Jun 08
Family Heirlooms - Beautiful family treasures are a joy.
I have some things from my Mum and an aunt and I hope to pass them on to one of my daughters and her daughters. My other daughter doesn't care for such things. I have a lovely pinkish bowl that Dad and I chose as his gift to Mum for their ruby wedding aniiversary and a beautiful old teapot. I also have Mum's engagement ring and a sapphire ring with a huge stone. From my aunt I have some lovely small bits of crockery and the cutest necklace and earring set in red crystal. It's quite old but very trendy. The earrings are clip ons.
@rx4life (1930)
• United States
11 Jun 08
I wouldn't part with any of them!! I have also an old rolling pin from my great grandmother...my g'mas rocking chair, many knick-knacks from many relatives, a picture or two from aunts, china cups for aunts and great aunts, jewelry ( not expensive from many aunts and g'ma and mom...) My husband also has his g'ma's rocking chair, both of his grandfather's ( on both sides) pocketwatches...little knives from our g'pa's and uncles.. They are none worth much..but we LOVE them!! ONe of my favorites is a little pin my father gave my mother the day I was born..it's purely costume jewelry..but means the world to me!!!
@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
12 Jun 08
I think it's just great, rx4life, that you have so many wonderful things to connect you and your husband to your ancestors. I think it is sad that many of the young people these days do not understand this.
@Aurone (4755)
• United States
10 Jun 08
I don't know that I have any heirlooms per se. But I have items given to me as gifts from people who I cherish--mainly books. Some of those people have since passed away.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
12 Jun 08
I would consider them heirlooms, Aurone, because it is the sentiment that is attached to them.
• United States
11 Jun 08
Yes, I do. I consider them all heirlooms, whether they are worth anything or not. I think I am the family collector! lol From my Dad's side of the family, I have all the old photos, my Grandfathers pocket watch, his Bible, my Grandmother's teapot, their mantle clock, iron cookware, depression glass, console radio, wooden rocking chair, letters and postcards and a mahogany Duncan Phyfe table. From my Mom's side of the family, I have most of the old photos, frames, my Great-Great Grandmother's milk pitcher, a very old bowl and a really pretty covered dish. I also have my Great-Grandmother's dress that my Grandmother wanted to be buried in (but wasn't), a beaded necklace that my Grandpa made for my Mom when she was a year old. There is nothing I would take for any of it. I enjoy it because it belonged to my family. I will pass it on to my daughter as well. I know she will care for it as I have.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
12 Jun 08
That is so wonderful, CherylsPearls! I would say that I am also the family collector. I have all of the old photos dating back to my great-grandfather, whom I never got to meet. I feel strongly that our children should have something that connects them to their past.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
12 Jun 08
Well, I have a dress that I wore when I was little. It still looks to be in good condition. I am planning on letting my daughter wear it pretty soon.
@borgborg (821)
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
yes we have heirlooms. but they're baby & toddler items which were 1st used by my eldest cousin & was passed down to my youngest cousin.
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
12 Jun 08
I would suggest that you hold onto them, borgborg, because they are the stuff of which heirlooms are made.