How to keep the Love even if your far from each other?

Philippines
June 11, 2008 7:49pm CST
My girlfriend went abroad to work and I'm left here. There are issues between the two of us. She can't feel my love as what she told me. I'm trying my best to put effort in my work for her and I send messages everyday. Honestly, I run out of words to say. She complains that my messages is always the same...='(...
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@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
12 Jun 08
Sometimes i do felt this way when my boyfriend went for college. He's acting differently, and i think i know how your gf felt. Maybe she's tired with working plus, missing you and lonely without you by her side. Maybe you should give her a call just to tell her how much you miss/love her. I mean, everyday. And then keep saying you miss her and wont cheat and all. And try to make poem, girls likes when her man making poem for them and express their feelings for her:) I hope it's helping. May god bless both of you;)
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
17 Jun 08
Surprise her!:) You go her place and call her and say ' look who's in front of your door ' She must be freaking happy:) I know, cause my bf did that too and I'm extremely excited and happy at the same time:) Do lots of surprises. Girl loves surprise;)
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
I thought of that also, she's working hard there and I know shes lonely, I love her and i cant wait to be with her...
@luvinu617 (185)
• United States
13 Jun 08
Well, I would say that one good way is to let her know how your day went every day. Call her on the phone instead of messaging her, its more personal and it give you two a chance to hear each others voice. Try to find things during the day that remind you of her, and then tell her about it, you have to let her know how much you think about her, and miss her right now because it's hard on her too. Maybe you can both get webcams for your computers/laptops and see each other that way. Maybe you can even "play" around a little with each other on there. I've never had to be away from my man long term, the longest was over a month and basically what we did was talk on the phone every day. He told me how boring his day was without me, and I did the same. It's hard, it's not fun, it's actually really sucks to be far apart from your partner. Good luck!
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
we communicate once a week,we chat. We've been chatting for 7 mos now, every week...I miss her so0...thanks for dropping by
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
12 Jun 08
it is really hard to keep such a relationship, i guess you can always talk to her not only send messages. sending messages are fine but you have to have a two way communication. what can you say in an sms only up to 300 characters? hehe being far from each other, i think you can try calling each other too, and talk on instant messengers. i know that would help you both and talk about the things she missed in your place and she can share what she sees in the country she is in.
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
It's hard,very much different when she's still here. She so far right now...
@abee86 (7)
• India
12 Jun 08
Dude i m sorry abt ur feelings but i m sorry 2 say that girls only tell these kind of things when they want u get off this relationship bcz they r seeking a new bf or she has allready got 1 n now she wants 2 leave u. As u told she is in abroad her feelings cannot fade if she really loves u bcz girls r more strongly then men on these circumstances so i think ur relationship is on the verge of being break so i think u should talk to her frankly for once get things clear n if she still finds ur message n company boring i will say move on with ur life u will get thousand times better than her BEST OF LUCK ..........
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
do you think so? Oh, It's just because of so much pressure from her family thats why shes acting like that...but thanks! I'll try to talk to her and tell her frankly if she still want me...
@ryozen (92)
• Philippines
12 Jun 08
Communication is the most important thing you need to maintain when you're far away from each other. You must communicate in every way that you can and in every possible time of the day. You must also trust each other because without this you'll just have quarrels from time to time. You must still be sweet even just through email, SMS and phone calls. Show your concern to each other and always be supportive because both of you will need each other more than ever.
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
I trust her...I always send SMS everyday...thanks!
• China
12 Jun 08
Ever i have the similar experience as you.From my experience i think the girl just catharsis her depressed mood.Just as you konw,the girl's mood is very strange.When she says one thing ,actualy she is pointing another thing.So,if you confirm the girl still love you ,you should be concerned about her with more patience.I hope you two will be as hand-in-hand as before.
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
Yeah, I understand her...and i'm patient, thanks!
• Canada
12 Jun 08
I'm in Ontario and my husband is in Arizona. We can say "I love you" contantly, and we do, but in between those words, we talk about our day, and just tell eachother what we are doing. It is as important for us to know what the other is doing, as it is for us to know how we feel about eachother.
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
I'm doing that too..I always told her that i love her through SMS, i can't call her everyday coz it cost much...