Will you hold hands of your lover when disaster comes?

China
June 12, 2008 2:54am CST
Different people have different opinion on this topic.Almost all the people will say,"Yes,I do."But i challenge the truth of their answer.We said yes because we are living in a peaceful time.If disaster come,will you absolutely hold your lover`s hand?I read an article in "reader"many years ago.The title is "if disaster comes,will you hold your lover`s hand?"However,the result is no.A girl love her boyfriend very much,but one time she bought breakfast for her boyfriend and met an ancident,she lost ono of her arm in that accident.When her boyfriend knew the result,he left her and never emerged from that time.Maybe you will say that the person who i was talking is few,however it is actually existing in our lives.So now tell me what you think about this.Thanks
4 responses
@ynigz1 (472)
• China
12 Jun 08
If I really love the person, I will stay with him no matter what he come front. But it's just I think, I don't know if it real come to you, what will I do. We could come front with this kind of status, one of my friend have a car accident with her boyfriend, after the disaster they married. Sometimes disaster can show the true love.
• India
12 Jun 08
You are right. Disasters may make or break the relations. I have had a mixed experience of this sort when the plane I was traveling in, had to land under emergency situation. That time many people stood-by their respective partner/companion/family. But also there were a few who were more interested in their own safety. So I feel it depends from person to person.
@zz1111 (215)
• China
12 Jun 08
very interesting topic! my answer is,sometimes i do,but sometimes don`t.my girl friend and i often quarel with each other.then,i am going to communicate with her,though i am also very angry.im a word,i think we boys should be more active when a disaster comes.
@GreenMoo (11834)
12 Jun 08
I hope that I would. However, until disaster strikes and we are faced with the reality of the situation, it is impossible to know how we would react.
@ashly1979 (1376)
• United States
12 Jun 08
it all depends on what the arguement was about, and if it is forgive-able.