Are you a player?
By drsparkle314
@drsparkle314 (529)
New Zealand
June 12, 2008 6:30am CST
Some people would probably raise their eyebrows after they've read the title of this discussion... but c'mon I know some people here are players... some are self-confessed... others are not... this is not a discussion to criticize you guys... it's just out of curiosity... I just want to find out the reasons why some people would rather fling, play, whatever you call it... rather than stick to one relationship and give it your all... everything and everyone has reasons... I'm sure some even have stories behind it... so what's yours?
2 responses
@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
12 Jun 08
well that was somewhat of my life a bit , by i was sorta naieve and young trying to think as if i was a player like my friends cause they would tell me stories and things like that , but i dont intend to go into that lifestyle anymore or ever ...right now im just a 1 woman man and loving it every day , sorry i had to kill the mood in this conversation lol
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
13 Jun 08
it's ok... I'm actually happy for you... you probably find the right one for you to turn your world around like that...
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
12 Jun 08
Some people are just insensitive (obviously dont realise it, so im not having a dig at anyone). But some people just don't realise that playing people leads to hurting them. They generally do it for a bit of fun, or because they feel lonely etc, but never because they love/want the relationship.
I've never played a person, and never will, i've only had one boyfriend, and im hoping it sticks that way. I couldnt imagine hurting someone just for a bit of fun.
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
12 Jun 08
I'm glad your one of those who doesn't like playing with the hearts of people... your boyfriend is lucky to have you...
