Forgiving

@jrk0624 (406)
United States
November 2, 2006 9:52pm CST
Do you forgive and forget easily when someone has made you mad or do you hold a grudge?
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16 responses
@prue187 (517)
• United States
9 Nov 06
I don't wanna hold grudge against someone who did me wrong. It's easy to say "I forgive you" but if the wound us too deep it will take time to heal. It's not that easy to forgive and just forget.
• United States
9 Nov 06
I put it this way. You can forgive, but it is hard to forget. When my exhusband cheated on me, his mother said it was nothing. I said, "I was bit by a German Shepard when I was 10, I have forgotten about the bite, but the scar is there and is a constant reminder".
@rockbaby (805)
• Lebanon
7 Nov 06
it depends on what that thing is.. i mean my friends yeah sure.. but like wat our downstairs neighbors did to my family and i.. i will never ever forgive them as long as i live because wat they did is not to be forgotten.. but i defenately learned not to be nice to everyone i meet.. (be nice but have precausions bcause there r soo many things u dono about the person ..)
• India
7 Nov 06
I forget
• United States
7 Nov 06
The Lord tells us to be meek as doves but also wise as serpents. To me, that means when I forgive, i do not also need to return to the same fololishness that got me hurt in the first place. Make sense?
@micheller (1365)
• United States
7 Nov 06
sometimes i forgive easily but i NEVER forget.
• Australia
5 Nov 06
People say to forgive is to forget... however, I might forgive, but hard to forget, especially if betrayed by someone I really trust. I can forgive them, but I'll find it difficult to believe on them again
@msqtech (15074)
• United States
7 Nov 06
depends on how much hurt is involved but I try
@premium (566)
• India
5 Nov 06
yes ,I forgive and forget easily when someone has made you mad.
• India
5 Nov 06
ya depends upon de intencity of de thng.. but usually i 4giv but not 4get.. dat remains in my main 4ever n ever...
@sadaff (328)
• Pakistan
5 Nov 06
i dont hold grudges...i forgive soon.
@wyykidd (1460)
• Singapore
7 Nov 06
depending on the issue, i can forgive, but will not forget
@shibin (90)
• India
5 Nov 06
i usually forgive and forget the incident
@casper20 (1463)
• India
5 Nov 06
peace of mind - peace of mind
i want to be a forgiving person.its hard. some times do forgive others. but sometimes i loose my control and then it is a hell. i be come a mess.but no matter of keeping a grudge on others. i forget too fast and easily
• United States
3 Nov 06
It depends who did it, and what they did. I have been hurt a lot, and i try hard to let it go though. Life is too short to hold on to it. We need to move on.
@ability (692)
• China
3 Nov 06
It depends somrthing can be forgived but something can not be forgived.