What women look firstly or mostly in a man?

@ibsnet (1268)
India
June 12, 2008 1:46pm CST
Obviously, women can answer this question aptly. But men also can share their experience, if any. Every woman has different tastes in likes or dislikes but something must be common. Is it 1. Money 2. Love 3. Security Add more and what will be on the top?
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• United States
12 Jun 08
First thing noticed in a man is a comely appearance, he has to look good otherwise things move slowly. The first thing I look for is if he is fun to be with, then if he a nice person and does he have decent morals, next I want to know about his education. As a woman I also want to know about his family and background, and what he believes theologically (this can make or break a relationship). One of the last things I pay attention too (though amoung the first in mind) is money and whether he is responsble with it. Wealth isn't that big of a deal, but how he spends it is very telling about his maturity.
• United States
12 Jun 08
Did I forget the romance factor? Most women rate love at the top, but it's not really true. Unless the woman is in love with love and not neccesarily the man, romance is pretty far down the list. Attraction however, which is commonly mistaken for love, rates number one on all accounts. The man better be attractive in some way.
@adoremay (2069)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
What I really look for a man is his sense of humor. His ability to make me smile, to make our relationship enjoyable. Then he should be family oriented, if a man values his family, love his mother and father and his siblings, this goes to show that he is a family man. And last I don't want him to be religiously inclined but he has to be a God fearing person, a obedient creature of God.
@cdparazo (5768)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
For me I look for attraction both physically and in mind. There were men that I found to be very attractive physically at first but such attraction just shriveled to nothing because the guy didn't appeal to me intellectually and there was no meeting of values as far as I was concerned. There were also guys that I found to be unremarkable physically and I wasn't really physically attracted to them at first, but after getting to know them and talking to them, I find myself drawn to them and that the possibility of a romantic relationship was just so promising because we just seem to hit it off.