Going back to school after 19 years.

@gemini_rose (16264)
June 12, 2008 5:40pm CST
Ahh no, not in the way that you think, I recently discovered a website that reunites old school friends. I am sure a lot of you have already come across these sites on your travels but I have never really bothered with them. Anyhoo, the last couple of days I joined one, just out of curiosity, you understand. I had such fun going through all the names and recognising friends I had long long forgotten about. Names brought back memories and memories made me smile and chuckle. I sent a few messages in the hope that maybe some of them will see them and get in touch. That would be very nice. Have any of you lot ever joined one of these sites and discovered old friends? Did you ever end up being in touch with these old friends through the sites? Just out of interest, how many of you are still actually friends with old school friends?
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14 Jun 08
I have joined friend reunited and have had the 'fond memories' from my school years. Though I dont use it much now, I tend to use facebook where I can chat to family, friends, old colleagues and old school friends. Its nice catching up and finding out how everyone is and what they are now doing in life especially when they take a different path to the one they thought they would years ago!!! Hope you enjoy catching up with all your old school mates.
@gemini_rose (16264)
14 Jun 08
No one seems to use friends reunited though, which is what I am on. I wonder if I would have more luck if I looked for them on facebook?
14 Jun 08
Facebook is better as its free whereas on friends reunited you have to pay for your membership if you want to send messages to friends. You go and attack facebook and find those old school friends. Even if you dont find them there is loads of games and stuff if that you can use to enterain yourself!!!
21 Jul 08
Thanks for BR!! Have you found any old school friends??
@mummymo (23706)
13 Jun 08
I have been on the sites in the past and did enjoy some giggles at the memories brought back but never really got in touch with anyone through these sites! I do still see some school friends which is nice for me! xxx
@mummymo (23706)
14 Jun 08
That's part of growing up honey! Whilst I have moved aaway several times I always come back to my home area and I think that is part of the reason I am still able to keep in touch with some school friends! xxx
@gemini_rose (16264)
13 Jun 08
I lost track of all of my friends, trouble is I was too interested in myself and so let them go without too much thought to them.
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@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
15 Jun 08
Hi gemini, I have met several school mates already in High School with one of those sites and it's indeed amazing, we've never meet for so long and now we are on contact and can give details about our lives and other people whom me know. Although it will be hard for us to meet in person since we are all far from each other, but I am glad that I met them online! Most of the time, we could hardly recognize, a lot of physical changes already!
@gemini_rose (16264)
15 Jun 08
That is really nice, I hope that some of mine get in touch.
@ellie333 (21016)
13 Jun 08
I am still best friends with the girl I met on my very first day of primary school age five and we are both 45 now and the friendship is as strong as it ever was even though we live different ends of the country, but anyone else from school if I am not in contact with now I really don't want to be. The reunions they do are usually to see who has achieved etc and still the same old b*tching from things I have heard from people that have attended them but the sites themselves if you genuinely want to catch up with someone I think are great. Ellie :D
@ellie333 (21016)
13 Jun 08
Thanks Gemini_rose, I have moved away too and so has she but our friendship is still very strong. I am sure many will remember you, have fun with it. Ellie :D
@gemini_rose (16264)
13 Jun 08
Wow that is really cool! I am not in contact with anyone I knew from school, but I do not live in the area anymore. I just thought it would be nice to see if anyone remembered me!
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@ruby222 (4847)
13 Jun 08
Yes Rose..we both belonged to Friends reunited..and did indeed make conact with a few people that we hadnt heard from for a very long time...but then we chose not to renew our membership..we decided it wasnt really worth it for us..but ive not long received an email saying that the membership to this site is free now...it was from the site..but i havent looked into it yet..maybe there is a catch!!..but good luck with yours..
@gemini_rose (16264)
13 Jun 08
I am with the same site ruby and I can tell you that yes it is now free! I did not have a membership I just put my name on when I first joined and so could not do much on there. But now I have gone back and have sent messages to those I want to be in touch with! NO CATCH xx
16 Jun 08
I use Facebook - it is fun and free. Some of the others you have to pay for. Facebook is good as pretty much everyone computer literate is on there!
@gemini_rose (16264)
16 Jun 08
I thought about that but then if any of my old school mates are married they will have changed their names. So I would not be able to find them.
@maryannemax (12154)
• Sweden
13 Jun 08
i joined friendster years ago. just like you, it was just out of curiousity. i wasn't so interested in even editing my profile. but days after, i got invitations to be friends with them. and to my surprise, they were those who had been my classmates during my elementary, highschool and college years. even people i haven't been really close to like schoolmates, neighbors and just someone i know by face. what's funny is when you can't even recognize their faces anymore... going through so many changes along the years. and it was just throough friendster where my classmates in elementary decided to have a reunion after 12 years. the reunion was really fun and we're planning to do it again some other time. it's also through friendster where i met my bestfriend in highschool once again. so, it's fun to join such sites. getting in touch with people and being connected with them even when you're too far away from them and even through the years. anne
@gemini_rose (16264)
13 Jun 08
I hope that some of them choose to get in touch with me.
@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
13 Jun 08
Yes I joined one a couple of years ago and put my name down next to my school and years that I was there, it was good seeing some familiar names there already, but it surprised me how man names I remembered but couldn't remember the faces...its a fun thing to do joinng a site like that.
@gemini_rose (16264)
13 Jun 08
It is funny how memories that I did not know that I had came flooding back!
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
13 Jun 08
Hello dear gemini_rose. I hope that you will be lucky enough to get in touch with your old school friends from the site. I have not been able to be in touch with my old school friends for many years as we are all scattered in different areas of the country.
@enola1692 (3323)
• United States
13 Jun 08
wow thats great I need to go check it out I always wondered about those sites
@tessah (6617)
• United States
13 Jun 08
i joined classmates.com.. found a few people that when i was young, were my everything in the world. weve gotten back in touch.. speak occaisionally.. we are friends yes.. but it isnt the close close relationship we had back then. i dont think you really can ever "go home again" warning.. if classmates is the one you joined.. be careful, they have a habit of making charges to yer credit card without authorizations. i wound up having to report my card stolen.. have it canceled, and go through alla that crap in order to get them to stop stealing money from me.
@gemini_rose (16264)
13 Jun 08
No I am not with classmates, I am with friends reunited I have not had to give no details like that as it is all free, but thank you for caring! xx
• China
13 Jun 08
During the third year of my university life,about seven years ago,internet surfing became very popular.One of my university classmates built our alumni record on internet.And almost all of my classmates joined this site,of course I did so.Then I found that some of my high school classmates had built an alumni record on the internet,too.I joined all of the alumni records,and kept touch with my friends through them.They are so important for me,I think.