Is it true that no pure friendship in this world?

June 12, 2008 11:18pm CST
Every people need friends for purpose. I`v experience one when my friend `used' me for purposes. What is true friendship true friendship exqactly? some will fell in love wif their friend. Some will owe money to the others. Exactly no body will open their eyes to friends which in trouble.. they blike to give opinions, but the implementation is zero. They like us to take risks of their advice. Is that is true friendship?
5 responses
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
It is true that most people only uses friendship for their own purposes. Based on my own experience, I've seen a lot of people doing that. However, I still believe that there are true friends. I myself is a true friend. I may not be perfect at all time but I am definitely a true friend. All of my friends are very true to me. They were always there for me as I was to them. I can trust them as they trusted me. And they have not failed me as a fried.
• Malaysia
20 Jun 08
Well, true friendship is about give and take where a person need to give something and take something for example, if a person celebrate his friend's birthday then the friend needs to celebrate his birthday as well. It's ok to fall in love with your friend but you must remember that it's a risk you have to take because after your friendship will never be the same after love. Thus, it's better not to treat people you have feelings for as your friends.
@kittenmc (464)
• United States
13 Jun 08
In this world we live in today, it's sad to say, but it's hard to find pure friendship. It is there thou. All I know to do is be one 1st. Yes, some will use you, but hopefully you being that one true friend, you can find one or maybe even 2. In the last or so I have weeded out so called friends because I got tired of being took advantage of. In this process, I have found 2 very dependable true friends. And I'm content with that, because I rather have a few good and faithful friends than a bunch that drain me dry.
@spyjob (214)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
A true friend will tell you when you are wrong and will criticize the wrong you have done. You will have a true friend if you are also true to yourself and to your friendship. True friendship will be gauge during hard times when one is in his lowest point of his life.
• China
13 Jun 08
this question also confused me for a long time! my experience is you can get advices from your friends,but shouldn't depend on them. there is an old sentences in china, it's means that it is so lucky if you get a ture frind in your life,and it's enough.