I hate my boyfriend being late everytime we went out...

Philippines
June 13, 2008 6:04am CST
A while ago, we have this appointment at 11am I waited for him about 40 mins and we left at 11am at our schedule time. Oh I really feel bad about it. Is this happened to you? how does it feel?
8 responses
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
23 Jun 08
funny, because most of the guys i know, if not all are always late!maybe this is like an instict with them! just keep your cool, you are not alone!hehehe!
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
24 Jun 08
your welcome!
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
14 Jun 08
Well some times it happened but most of time i am ontime or 5-10 mins b4 times]. it feel odd if i get late and i feel bad inside. i believe u should honor ur commitments
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
16 Jun 08
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
13 Jun 08
You should explain to him that he's constant being late upsets you. And if he doesnt understand / doesnt change his ways then i suggest you just turn up later for him, or schedule an earlier time for him. Good luck
• Philippines
14 Jun 08
Yes I'm telling it to him. Thanks!
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
yes it happend to me and i hate my partner for being late. because in my part i prepare myself very early for the appointment and he never give consideration of my effort.
@bestie (3272)
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
hahaha...peace!
@ken5254 (18)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
If it was happened for the first time, and he gave you a reasonable alibi, I think its ok to forgive him. But and a big BUT... he is always doing it, something has wrong about him. All of time-concerned individuals hated it when their partners or associates was always late. And if he did it a lot of times, maybe he needed some serious talking. Mind if i suggest some approach? In the times like this, always be assertive. Assertiveness is in between being passive and aggressive. We should try an approach that they can realize their shortcomings and feel sorry rather than be angry on how hard we throw our words to them. Maybe an approach like this "Don't you know how I feel when you always let me wait on you on our dates? it made me feel I am not that important to you." with this, you never told him how much you hated him, but what you are feeling or how it affected you about on what he is always doing. and believe me anyone soften with this kind of approach.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
13 Jun 08
it always feel bad when you have to wait for some for long and is always late. i am not into any relationship. so itys not the acse with me.but once a friend who used to go out with me was always late.
@ayrin03 (318)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
i will get disappointed about it. You should talk to your boyfriend about his being late.. I hate my boyfriend being late too. But he has a reason why he is late. I hate waiting for a long time.. Do you?