What will do you do, if your mom doesnt like your partner??

Malaysia
June 13, 2008 12:14pm CST
what will you do, if your mom pretend to like your partner, but in the same time, she doesnt like him..not that much of hate..but still doesnt like him..i feel so bad about this..anyone can try to solve my problems..any ideas??
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@coolmailraj (2461)
• India
13 Jun 08
It is a difficult situation to be in, you are with two person without either of whom you don't want to live and they can't live together. I'll just try to bridge the gap between the two. I have always felt taking to each other can solve most of the differences.
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• Malaysia
13 Jun 08
i always tell my mom, that my partner is the best for me..always talk good bout my partner to my mom, but my mom still doesnt like him..but, sometimes, i can see that my mom likes him..thats make me really confuse at some particular time..
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@coolmailraj (2461)
• India
13 Jun 08
It is a difficult situation to be in, you are with two person without either of whom you don't want to live and they can't live together. I'll just try to bridge the gap between the two. I have always felt taking to each other can solve most of the differences.
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@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
Well, what i could say here is, show your mom that you're serious with your bf. Doesn't mean you have to talk to you mom all the time about your bf. Just show her that you need her to accept this guys since you're very serious with him and wanted to have future with him. Example, ask your bf to come to your house, and hang out and get to know your parents more. If your parents needs help from someone, then tell them that your bf can help. *depends if he really could help. Sometimes we have to show our parents that we are serious in some relationship and we need support from them;) Perhaps, they could see your intention and understand you more!
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
aha..thanks ieeko..i always ask him to come over to my house..but, my parents seems busy with their work..so we dont have much more time to spent together..but i'll try what u suggest dear.. thanks lots ok!
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
;) All the best
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
thanks for the wish ok :)
@jenyenh (205)
• Maldives
13 Jun 08
They always say that mom knows best, we don't agree with it otherwise, however I was on the same situation in the past where my mom doesn't like the guy and she told me about it. I tried to prove her wrong but to cut the long story short, I end up leaving the guy! I guess moms always have instincts on what is best for their child. However, it is up to us to make a choice whether we pursue what we believe is right or we go by what mom wants for us. I believe if we want to make it work it will and we need our mom to make it happen. But we need our partner to work on the same thing. It takes two to tango...
• Malaysia
13 Jun 08
oouh..thanks for the respone..i know that mom knows the best, just some times, i need her to understand me much more..i love my pratner so much..and i also love my mom too..thats make me feel so dificult to choose either two of them..
@jenyenh (205)
• Maldives
13 Jun 08
Hey I don't think you have to choose between your mom and your partner. I think our mom react the way they do if they think the person will not make a good partner. If you truly love this person and he loves you too. I think you have to find a way to make your mom understands and know that this person makes you happy. Coz the bottom line is mom will always want us to be happy and they just don't know what we feel inside. I think they are trying to protect us from being hurt and perhaps if she knows how happy you are right now with your partner she might just change her mind.
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
ooh dear..thanks for the respone..i really will consider what u said..thanks a lot ok :)
@magikrose (5433)
• United States
13 Jun 08
My mom never liked any of my boyfriends I had. no matter what no one was good enough for her daughter. I am married now and I know that my mom is not completely happy with my choice but she also see's that my husband is a very hard worker, lovng father to our children and a wonderfull husband to me and as long as I am happy and out children are happy then my mom is happy and stays out of our business.
• Malaysia
14 Jun 08
oouh really??pity you dear..this is my first time show my boy to my parents..seems my dad is ok with dad, just my mom..sometimes she likes him..and sometimes shes not..i try my best to talk to my mom bout him..but..it seems doesnt work..
• India
13 Jun 08
Hi friend, Maybe mother hates that spouse, but she loves his child.... Because of her love towards child, she will definitly accepts her.. Otherwise she would say... If you marry her i wont be here.... Happy Myloting:-)
• Malaysia
13 Jun 08
oouh.aha..thanks for the respone.. :)
• India
13 Jun 08
Hi friend, Maybe mother hates that spouse, but she loves his child.... Because of her love towards child, she will definitly accepts her.. Otherwise she would say... If you marry her i wont be here.... Happy Myloting:-)
• India
13 Jun 08
Hi friend, Maybe mother hates that spouse, but she loves his child.... Because of her love towards child, she will definitly accepts her.. Otherwise she would say... If you marry her i wont be here.... Happy Myloting:-)