I hate quarrels... I'm feeling down if I had one!

As the Bible says: "As much as possible let us live peaceably among men." and therefore I really avoid getting in conflict with any one. The best way to achieve this is learn to accept other peoples mistake by thinking that you yourself do make mistakes also because we are after all not perfect. Learn also to say sorry if you have done wrong and learn also to forgive anyone who has wronged you and do your own way to patch things up. Especially if it is your boyfriend... because you love him after all and you would not want to be forever alienated with him.

I know how it feels...hehehe Who started the fight my friend?Is it you?hehehe

I guess you cannot totally avoid this thing to happen in your life. I admit to hate it but when it happens then I just try to breathe deep and stop before anything goes out of control. Feeling bad is just a normal reaction to the situation but i guess stopping whatever that is causing you to be irritated and try to calm yourself from everything does the trick sometimes. After feeling calmed down try to assess the situation and maybe resolved it as soon as possible. Look deeper in yourself than blaming others about how the situation started part of what is happening with you right now started with you no matter how it started. Look deeper into it and sometimes you'll see a light at the end.

Hi dear fight is only there where is love. do u ever think of ffighting with stranger? just go and say sorry, give him tight squueze and wet kiss, i am sure he will be more than OK and in futture, be patient and think b4 u speak and things will be fine

I hate it but in a relationship small fights is normal. It can make you and can also break your relationship. Just understand each other and have an open relationship.Tell your love one's what you want and you dont want and you also listen to his.

I had a girlfriend two years ago who also had small fight with me ,but I think it was so common things that didn`t impress you much.Thus ,so long as getting long well with her,this thing will be finished sooner or later.

A quarrel will take awy your peace and too many quarrels will will kill you! You rather fight and get over with the bother than have something nagging you all your life nd ending up in unfinished quarrel!

I hate quarrel too,you may change the way of your antinomy.Best wishes.

Quarrels, arguments, misunderstandings are common things in life. Specially in a relationship. This cannot be avoided. There is nothing to hate about it for as I've said its common. The thing is you have to look forward in those arguments and find solutions. besides this quarrels are the things that makes you grow and strong.

I can understand your feeling,but sometimes you can change your mind ,fighting is not always bad for your feeling,because fighting also tells that you love each other.