fed up..

Hi dear i wonder why u r confuse, its nothing to confused, u have a b/f who care for u, who love u and sincere with u about marriage, you should appreciate that he is loyal to his father and his studies , it means he will be loyal to u forever, what else u want. The best way is sit togather, decide a target as when to get marry and work on it, once u r married and in same house then you 2 can take care of all matters togather, Wish u all the best and pray that Allah guide u properly. Take care

i think you are in dilemma. as its related to you, you can take the call better. try to think why he is so busy most of the times. if he can manage some time out, why he does not do so. also think the way he take care. which weighs more?

it is better for you to think it seriously, if you fed up now what about after marriage, did you happy if your bf always been with you all the time at now but after marriage if he have to go some way else for job or work then did you not fed up anymore, the answer is all inside your self, better talk with him and find how to make you feel like he always with you.

Hey there. I know how you felt. You're not fed up. You just lonely. You need someone to be there for you and all. But you guys have been 6 years together. Why can't you understand that he has lots of responsibility that he has to take? He has to work so that he could make you live happily when you guys are married, he has to take care of his sick dad. Whenever my bf is busy and don't have much time to pay attention to me, I'll keep in my mind that someday, maybe when we're married, he'll pay me back. He'll give me his full attention and all. We've been 3years++ now and still counting. Somehow i felt very lonely since he has to study and all. But i tried to understand and I'll feel better when i know he's doing all this because of me. Our future is in his hand. He has to study very hard. Well, his love and loyalty towards me are way better than this lonely feeling that doesn't last long. But for now, I guess you boyfriend already paid you. His love and his loyalty. You should be thankful to have a boyfriend who work really hard for your future with him. Don't give up too easily. 6 years, wow. Don't waste it for something that you know you can't do anything about it except for have to solve it together. But one thing i wanna tell you. If you do not love him anymore, than leave. If you still wanna work on this relationship, then have a slow talk with him, tell whatever you wanna tell him, and try to solve it together. I wish the best for you

Hi Friend, If you really love him and he also do so that is good and offcourse he might be busy as you said with his father, because he might be the only one who has to look after for his father & mother and i think you can understand that what Father & Mother means to a Son/Daughter as they have lived there life and had done everything for you to be a good, grownup and matured personality. And the thing you have mentioned that you people are saving money for you Marriage purpose and he (your BF) reminds you each time about the same, so it good thing about him that he thinks that we have to do something in our life. So buddy don't get disappointed that you are alone, but think you are helping him to make a way to reach upto you and make a good decision for your future. Best of Luck God Bless You and your love.

Hi, I believe, your guy is dodgy. I think he wants you for a wife, but not for a lover. Hes never thier always makes up excuses about what and where he is going. Hes always studying, and he is going to leave you soon, to look after his sick father. I think this is a bit convieniant for his situation. I'm not saying hes a bad guy, but I think you should stop being so submissive and grow a back bone and tell him your feelings and thoughts. Thanks B