I will never become a good wife.. Not unless..
By anex08
@anex08 (868)
Philippines
June 16, 2008 6:41am CST
I have tried to be a good wife by serving him breakfast in the morning but he said he's too late for his appointment, this happen often so I grow tired and then I let him do his way.
I have tried to be a good wife by asking him if how was his day and if he want me to give him massage so he could relax but he refuses to talk to me and ask me to leave him alone because he was tired for giving out even a simple talk.
I have tried to be a good wife, by cleaning up myself, maintaining a good health and keeping in good style so that he might not look into other girl to flirt on but still he did not recognize my effort instead he told me to change dress and be comfortable at home.
I have tried to be a good wife by doing everything he likes even if it means setting aside my own happiness, but it does not do good at all.
Now I stop doing those things, I stop hoping for him to change, I stop dreaming, I stop feeling sad, I stop feeling cold and alone, and mostly, I stop being a good wife. It does not work at all. And now I would say, I will never become a good wife at all... Not unless... or not anymore.
2 responses
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
12 Aug 10
Well keep loving him and dont give up. Just analyse and note down what all he finds mistakes and try to work out one by one. Thats how the way i changed, it may take some time but dont give up and dont be frustrated. He will understand your love for sure.
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
24 Feb 09
I know that this discussion is old and these things may have been worked out. First let me say that I am in no way trying to offend you. I do want to ask you a few questions though, when you made your husband breakfast did you wake up earlier then him to make sure it was prepared so that he could sit down and eat? Another thing I must comment on is what kind of work does he do, or rather did he do at the time of your discussion? I don't think he's necessarily trying to ignore you or offend you so much as he needs a few moments to himself to relax after a hard days work. Some people take more time to relax depending on the job and how easily they can take stress.
I think that your husband was not trying to offend you in anyway and I think he may have recognized your efforts to be beautiful for him but he may love you the way you are or your role as a housewife. One thing women do is think they are ugly when their husbands, fiance's, or bf's think they are the most beautiful thing. I don't think your husband wants you to set aside your own happiness but I can't say for myself if he is or not. You are not a bad wife by trying and failing, and I think more then anything your husband appreciates you. Talk to him.
Again I don't mean to offend.
