virginity

@Krisaea (114)
Philippines
June 16, 2008 2:46pm CST
Here in our country i admire our ancestors who planted in the mnd of their descendants the importance of virginity. For ladies to be married they must preserve their virginity until the day of their wedding to ther husband . Personally i admire this and tradition . How about you?
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@babostwick (2037)
• United States
16 Jun 08
I do respect that greatly. Though I'm a guy it can be easily respected without question. You should never force it on to anyone. When marriage comes along, it would be the best time and can be respected quite a bit. As a guy and it's probably shocking but I'm waiting until the right moment probably being marriage to my future wife whomever that may be.
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@Krisaea (114)
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
Very nice of you to decide for that. Lucky is the lady whoever she would be. you show respect to ladies. I guess this is real love. If a guy really loves the lady, he must not be in a hurry to take this from her.
• United States
18 Jun 08
It is. If you force it, it's not going to do anyone any good no matter what. I just have that belief and that's just the way it is and is going to be. It's about having a respect and not causing any trouble.
@xixinha (141)
• Portugal
16 Jun 08
I think that virginity is important but i dont believe you have to wait until marriage. As long as you have the age for it and when is with somebody very special. Over here where i live almost everybody loses their virginity by the age of 14, which to me is very young.
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@Krisaea (114)
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
yes thats very young. SOme guys prefer girls with no experience yet because they want to be the first one to touch his girl however nowadays, this thing is ignored . they prefered love over this. Well,. everyonw has his own preferences.
• Australia
16 Jun 08
ur r true i too admire this thinking but today in the westerun culture all this thing are of no value they think that the life is what they want can can do any thing with it i like ur dissucision and personally admire it
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@Krisaea (114)
• Philippines
18 Jun 08
Thanks for that! I wish the parents can put this thing in the mind of there children. Dignity and respect are still very important. To show love to oneself and respect to the future husband.
• United States
20 Jun 08
I think it's crap...men should have to keep their virginity if they want to marry a virgin...I just think it's stupid.
• United States
20 Jun 08
You know this discussion got me so mad I had to post my own discussion about it! Thank You for agreeing with me...I hate that there are so many people think that this is OK.
• Singapore
18 Jun 08
Let's face it. Virginity in females is somehow a chauvinist standard. If a man can take on a lady that has been in bed with a number of guys and finds looking at the eyes of guy knowing that he used to screw his lady, then that's fine. But if he isn't able to take other guys lustfully looking at his lady while thinking the steamy bed encounters she had with them before, then go with a virgin. It depends on how chauvinistic the male partner is.