does it really that hard to find a good girl/guy?

guy - good kiss
Philippines
June 16, 2008 3:40pm CST
MY bestfriend has been into a relationships 3 times every quater and it seem to be very alarming knowing that she's been into many relationships...hehehe(well that's her life!) So I asked her on what's the reason behind it and she said that it really is that hard to find a good guy. That triggers me now to find a good guy for me because she said at the first stage of your relationship it's smooth sailing and then after...it's disaster! Well, I'm not saying that all relationship ends up like this. So it is really that hard to find a good guy/girl?...
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@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
yeah, it is so hard to find a good girl/guy now a days. LOL. well, there isn't a perfect person in this world. and I guess, being a good or bad boy/girl isn't the soul reason on why relationship never work out. for your friend, maybe she doesn't found yet the right man for her. relationship isn't always a smooth sailing, you need to experience also some roughness for your relationship to be strong. patience is a virtue and I am sure that someday, she'll meet her prince accidentally. for now, stay happy being single.
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
17 Jun 08
It's not hard to find a good guy/gal, but rather finding someone who suits u, is hard.. Everybody is harbouring the thought of it's hard to find someone good, and thus they wun take each relationship seriously.. So when that happens, all the good gals and guys will become bad, because they all dun think they can last.. They dun put in enough effort in the relationship and thus it fails easily..
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
17 Jun 08
I agree with your friend it is hard to find a good guy. I have learned that myself in the past. Of course I have had some pretty bad realtionships. So I understand how your friend feels.