controlling or being sweet?

Philippines
June 16, 2008 8:27pm CST
My boyfriend doesn't like when I wear causal make-up liek mascara and foundation.Thats it! Soem people think taht it is conrtolling and others think it is sweet tat he want to see you for you. What do you think? Is this controlling me or being sweet?
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@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
17 Jun 08
I would take it as the way he feels about the way you look. Not really controlling.
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• Philippines
17 Jun 08
thanks...
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@jhl930 (3601)
• United States
17 Jun 08
i don't know i think that it is just the situation...like if you were going to be around a bunch of guys or something like that and you wanted to wear some and he told you no...that could be controlling...but if he just really wants to see you naturally because he thinks that you are beautiful and there is no one else around and he just said that...like i just think that you are naturally beautiful and i dont want you to cover it up or id rather you didn't cover it up...that maybe sweet...but i think that its just the situation that you are in and how he handles it...i think that you will be able to tell more as time goes on...like by his moods and things like that...but for the time being maybe you should give him the benefit of the doubt if you think that he is being sweet!
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
maybe I should try to tell him about this ...am trying to understand him...well who knows he will understand me too that it really part of grooming up yourself to public....right?
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• Canada
17 Jun 08
If he doesn't like it, but doesn't object to you wearing it, he's just stating an opinion, and one which I think is really sweet. However, if he FORBIDS you from wearing makeup, he is being controlling.
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
hhmm.. have you ask him on why he doesn't want to see you wearing that make ups?, I believe there's a reason behind that.
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
17 Jun 08
In this case, i think it's controlling.. Like u say, it's casual make up, and it's not like u are attending some important function or going somewhere far and nice, so casual make up will do just fine.. UNless he thinks that u look good without make up, and if that's really the case, he should tell u the truth then..
• Indonesia
17 Jun 08
maybe your boyfriend want to show his care on you. he is so comfortable having you as beautiful as he want. so dont be disturbed by his behave unto you.
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