does it difficult to live with others?

@monaliu (344)
June 17, 2008 3:45am CST
everyone have his habits and experiences.to one thing,maybe you think it is ok,but she think can't upset. when you need to live with others(supose are your boyfriends),how do you do?
5 responses
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
Hi monaliu! I'm an independent person so I would prefer to live alone. I've also experienced having a companion. But living alone gives you the power of freedom. You can do whatever you like. You decide everything for yourself. But you have to be responsible for all your actions because you can only blame yourself for your mistakes. Living alone means having lots of responsibilities. Especially in doing the house choirs, paying the bills and all other things that has to be done. But living with someone isn't bad at all because its also nice to have someone, even just a friend to share things with. But the key to be able to do this without having problems is to learn how to get along well with others.
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
Hi monaliu! Thanks for the best response. I'm glad you liked my response. I hope I was able to help you. Thanks again and enjoy mylot!
@monaliu (344)
17 Jun 08
thanks for your response! you are right,maybe I should change aother place,I also want to change my job. en,maybe everything will be ok soon!
@sminut13 (1783)
• Singapore
17 Jun 08
i would have loved to experience living by myself but since i got married early, i didn't get it. thus as all have said so far, it is tough to live with someone else especially if you're a really independent person. it was tough for me to live with my hubby at first but after much give and take you could say, we are fine so far. we need to compromise. but we can live with others if we want to. it's all in the mindset i feel.
@monaliu (344)
24 Jun 08
thanks! I get a single room right now.
@angemac23 (2003)
• Canada
17 Jun 08
Yes, I find it difficult to live with others. When you live alone, you can keep your place as clean as you want and be as loud as you want and not have to worry about others being too loud when you want to sleep. But when you live with others, it's a constant battle!
@monaliu (344)
17 Jun 08
yes,as you said. I fell very sad to live with her right now. maybe I will choice another place to live alone. good luck!
• China
20 Jun 08
Yes,I agree with you absolutely,I have the feeling and experiences recently.It is hard to happy everyone,so sometimes,i thought that we can not make everyone happy around us.is that right?anyways,hope everthing goes well
@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
Yes, for me it's truly difficult to live with others especially if you need to please them all the time... if they mean a lot to you though, then you need to sacrifice. But it's easy to live for others.. what I mean is when you give up everything about yourself for other people in your life. It's truly an amazing and rewarding experience! Happy posting!
@monaliu (344)
17 Jun 08
give up all the things of myself! my god! it is a difficult and impossible thing.