Be my friend through my lot

@muralirv (572)
India
June 17, 2008 4:50am CST
I wonder why people are not messaging through my lot.I love to have friends through mylot but no one is messaging.is tis mylot's problem or people are not willing to message.i am talking about send message option
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@paid2write (5201)
17 Jun 08
I have received messages from some of my friends at myLot. I always respond, unless it is just a message promoting a website and I am not interested. If anyone wants help or advice or wants to share information with me I am happy to send and recieve messages. Maybe some members feel their messages will not be welcome, or perhaps they are more interested in earning money from their posts than spend time sending messages, which do not earn anything. Have you tried messaging your myLot friends and seeing if they reply?
17 Jun 08
Some of your friends may not want to read messages because they have had too many spam ones before and don't bother to read them now, or they may just not notice they have a message as they are not logging in to myLot or seeing the notification.
@muralirv (572)
• India
17 Jun 08
ok
@xplp211 (253)
• China
18 Jun 08
I have ever received a message from one of my friend and I am very glad to receive it, and reply it at once. I think myLotters are not used to send messages because if you have a question, you don't know who can answer it and you will start a discussion to ask. Unless you have a very close friend in myLot, and want to ask for some private thing, then you need to send a message. That is my understanding about messages and discussions. By the way, congratulations to your 100 post!
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@muralirv (572)
• India
18 Jun 08
Oh thanks a lot my dear friend.i too get messages but from very few persons.many don't reply.i go with your words.Hey you too going to reach 100 right let me congratulate you in advance.congrats!
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@xplp211 (253)
• China
21 Jun 08
I think don't reply is not polite. Thank you for your blessing!
• India
17 Jun 08
Hi murali, nice to meet you. We can make a network of friends here. This would a good start. Thank you. Happy myloting :-)
@muralirv (572)
• India
17 Jun 08
you are right.Through post everyone can view it.But in message no one can view their personal things.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
17 Jun 08
i think people are more interested in making and responding discussions here. still many here use PM very often . i also have got many message.but i am not more into this. i just respond if i get some.
@muralirv (572)
• India
17 Jun 08
Don't you like having friends through my lot? why don't you grow your friends network through my lot.
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
17 Jun 08
There may be a couple of explanations to why the messaging system is not used: 1. People are here mostly for the money, and the private messages are not remunerated so there is no point in doing that for them. 2. People like their privacy, and like to keep messaging to a minimum - after all with all the posting going around, who has time to message 3. The recent fearing regarding the problems of the tags that lead to anyone's private message, thus making it not so private.
@muralirv (572)
• India
17 Jun 08
i understand but a general message is not going to create any problems right?Like how are you and what are you?such simple; it is going to be private.Is it possible to read others messages.i don't think so.
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