Visiting Unannounced

@gtdonna (1738)
June 17, 2008 7:44am CST
Do you like it wheh visitors turn up at your home without giving you advanced notice? In some countries it seems to be a no, no...but in my country it is no big deal and visitors are always warmly welcomed and given something to eat and drink.
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@Lindalinda (4111)
• Canada
17 Jun 08
I don't like it when people drop in unanounced. It was ok. years ago when not every one had a phone. Now there are phones, e-mail, text messaging and cell phones. So there is no excuse. I am not very socialble myself and very untidy by nature so drop in guests might find a mess, also I shop just for the minimum so I may not have anything to offer except maybe tea.
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@gtdonna (1738)
25 Jun 08
Good point...I have heard others voiced the same sentiments about things being different now
@kel1483 (986)
• United States
17 Jun 08
We have people drop by unannounced a lot. I don't really like it, but others in my family don't really mind. I just like to know if someone is going to come by. That way I can make sure that the house is clean and I'm prepared for them. Also, I'm not super social, so I hate when people show up unannounced and no one else is home and I am stuck 'entertaining' them for a while.
@gtdonna (1738)
17 Jun 08
I feel you on that. That is one of the reasons I learned as a child to alwasy keep the house clean because we never know who will come visiting that day. also since my mother had a big family who lived in another part of the country and they always came to stay by here when they travel, she made sure that the hosue was always neat and clean. Like you I am not a very social person, I like my peace and quiet, so if I find myself aloen with guest, I ask if they want something to eat or drink and try to make small talk praying that whoever they come to see will eb home soon.
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@kel1483 (986)
• United States
17 Jun 08
Yeah, I always just hope that the person they are waiting for gets there soon. Or I just hope that the guest decides to not wait around for them and just leave.
• China
23 Jun 08
Yeah,i still like it though visitors call in all of a sudden,because it is a very good thing chatting with the visitors.
@gtdonna (1738)
25 Jun 08
True!