He won't show that he cares.

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I am at the end of my rope, here. I have been dating the same guy for four years and the past year we've been having some problems. He can be a real jerk and he can be mean and then he says he doesn't know he was being a jerk and he's sorry. He doesn't treat me like his girlfriend, he treats me like his buddy. And he won't show me that he cares. I've broken up with him at least six times in the past three weeks because he won't show he cares and he keeps saing he'll try and I give him another chance. The thing is, it's not hard to show you care about someone. At least not to me. And the kicker is, I keep telling him things he could do to show it or I keep giving him opportunities to do it but he just lets them pass right by. I feel like I've done everything I possibly can and I don't know what else to do but break up but I really don't want to. Is there anything else I could do or tell him? Are there any other things I could do or say something to get his act together? Honestly, I feel like I've been trying my best for the past four years and now it's up to him and it seems like he just doesn't want to try but he doesn't want to break up either. Please, any help is greatly appreciated. Thanks.