my mom's new house

@enbrown (282)
United States
June 17, 2008 7:47pm CST
My mom and dad have been separated for 10 plus years. It was all because my mom had an affair with her now boyfriend. Her boyfriend is 9 years younger than her, which is fine. I want my mom to be happy, I really do. But I don't like her boyfriend. I know people are going to say if your mom is happy who are you to judge. And I would love to be mature enough to have that outlook. But I can't. I feel that she betrayed my father. I feel like her boyfriend is a gold digger who is only using my mom for what he can get out of her. My mom had a nice house, one I felt at home in. Then due to her boyfriends nagging, she bought a different house. The deal is if she buys the house he will pay the utilities. But he made no contribution to paying the bills at the old house due to it belonging in half to my father. Also a picture of me, my sister, my mom, and dad had been in the old house. It's not in the new house. I had made a comment some time back about what did her boyfriend say about the picture and my mom said he didn't have a problem with it. She also said if he did have a problem it was too d@mn bad. But now she has came up with the excuse of it not fitting in the new house. The new house is a lot bigger. I'm sure her boyfriend doesn't like the picture. But let's just call it like it is. Why make up a bogus excuse? I want my mom to be happy. I love her. When is she going to relize that this scumbag is not worth it? He worked or my parents business and was supposed to be friends with my dad. It takes 2 to have an affair, but my mom's boyfriend is a manipulative person. He has stolen possesions from my dad (besides my mom hahaha) things that were left in the garage like tools and whatever. I don't feel comfortable in my mom's new house, I feel like I am at her boyfriends house. It makes me feel uncomfortable. It is a nice house but I don't ever want to go back although I know I will. I still love my mom. I just wish she had not moved.
1 response
@skinnychick (6905)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Your mom sounds like a smart successful woman who is making a bad choice here. She will wake up and realize that he isn't worth it and will toss him out. She wasn't happy with your dad because she went astray which tells me something was missing there. It doesn't make it right it just makes it what happened. Stick by your mom, she needs you and loves you. She will wake up hun, make no mistake about that.
@enbrown (282)
• United States
20 Jun 08
Thank you. Yes I stick by my mom's side, sometimes it is hard tho.