how can you forget someone who you love most?

Philippines
June 19, 2008 1:01am CST
i been in a fresh realationship. I want to stop and leave that person, But, i can't help myself. Still, i entertain that person and have communication with. Im into a hardtime of letting to forget those memories and that person but i can't do in action. Though, there are times that i am trying to be firm for my decision but still, i seek the attention of that person. I have never been into this kind of relationship before that is why its one of my problem for now...
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6 responses
@subha12 (18441)
• India
19 Jun 08
I do not know the exact raeson for the breakup. or why you want to leave him. if it is what you have decided, then you have to make yourself engaged in other activities that take away atention, try to make your identity.
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• Philippines
19 Jun 08
i been trying to find ways inorder to forget her but, then there are times that i missed her and want to communicate with her. I am living her because we're not meant for each other. We often clash and i have no time for her.
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• China
19 Jun 08
it's really hard! i think the most effictive way is to make yourself busy. change your habbit, make new friends.
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• Philippines
19 Jun 08
thanks for the response... im doing it right now but it seems it doesn't work... huhuhu'
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@mycharm88 (2288)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
Being in love - It's hard to forget the person we love, sometimes we can never do.
Hello dear friend c",) i know this is a late reply and i do hope you feel better now. I don't really know the story, your love stroy but i feel your pain. i have been hurt too... I had 2 relationships before and it failed. Gladly i'm into one right now and i feel happy with him. In your case, i think it would be hard to forget the person specially if you could see her anytime you want. If that would be me it would be impossible, until i will find someone to replace the person in my heart. I mean, they can never be forgotten since they've been a part of me but the feeling will fade if you will find someone new. Someone to share your life with and someone who is willing to share also... I'm sure someday you will find the one who will love you for as long as you both shall live. Good luck my friend and be patient also, God will lead you to the right ONE!c",)
@excellence7 (3647)
• Mauritius
7 Jul 08
It is possible to forget someone you love the most..just get on with busy tasks and make new friends...Infatuations are really very very easy to forget..and love is not so easy but it is possible..because everything is possible on this planet. All we have is to get on with new relationships and start valuing the importance of life with new hopes.
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• United States
7 Jul 08
you really can't forget someone that you love... if you love them why aren't you with them. Are they with someone else??? Are they married or something??? I know how you feel i'm married and i still have feeling for a man that i didn't even have a relationship with.
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@msedge (4011)
• United States
7 Jul 08
The hardest part in our life is when we fall in love and broke our heart.Falling in live makes us feel crazy and blind.We can never stop our heart from beating no matter how we tried to do so.I know its hard to do this but you have to accept the reality that the person is not meant for you.Think and love yourself.If you think the person is not good for you then try to stay away from that person.Only you can help yourself.
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