Children On Transportation.

@kerriannc (4279)
Jamaica
June 19, 2008 11:37am CST
IN an age where parents have to work during school hours, the time will come when many may have to bend and allow their children to take public transportation. Indeed, some parents start the practice very early, as evidenced by the many tots seen taking public transportation all by themselves. For a child, this can be a frightening experience as it will mean that they will be out of their parents' immediate presence and will be travelling among strangers. It is therefore important that you do not allow your child to begin this exercise until they are about 10 years old, at which time they would have reached a higher level of maturity and can seek assistance from others if necessary. If you have to start early though, it is important that you keep your child safe by raising their awareness of potential hazards when taking transportation alone. There are also a number of safety tips that your child must know whether they are using a school bus, a public bus or taxis. 1. If the bus stop is not in the vicinity of your child's school, teach them the safest route to get there with the fewest streets to cross. 2. Teach them to stand well back from the curb when waiting for the public bus, and to not approach the bus until the driver opens the door. 3. Public buses rarely come with seat belts. As such, you should advise your child to be seated at all times facing forward. Teach them about optional exit strategies including using the emergency doors and windows in case of an accident. 4. If they are taking the taxi, they should put on the seat belt if one is provided. They should also try to sit in the back seat which is much safer. 5. Teach them to never accept rides from a stranger. It is therefore important that your child knows the driver of the taxi that is taking him/her home from school. If you plan to change the usual driver, it is important that you notify your child's administrator. 6. If they must take a taxi that was not chartered by you, inform them that they should not take it alone. Instead, they must wait until other passengers are on board before they do so. 7. Teach them that they should never cross the street in front of a public bus. They should wait for the bus to pull away so that they can have a clear view of the street. If they must walk through parked traffic, they should stop and look carefully before stepping out from between vehicles. 8. Let them know that they must cross the street at the pedestrian crossing if one is available when they exit the bus. They must do so when the light turns on red, and when all vehicles have come to a complete halt. 9. Instruct your children to stay away from the bus' rear wheels at all times. 10. Teach them that when possible, they should walk on the sidewalk facing traffic and always use caution. 11. They should never go under any bus to retrieve something that they have dropped. Ask the driver or an adult to do it for them instead. 12. Avoid all fighting or rough play when getting off or into public transportation. 13. Speeding is one of the major causes of motor vehicle accidents. Teach your child to be very assertive. Let them know that it is okay to let the driver know that they are scared if they are driving too fast. 14. They should never put their head or hands outside of the windows of public transportation. 15. Have your child wear brightly coloured clothes when they have to leave school late or take the bus before dawn. Taken from the JamaicaObserver dated May 26, 2007. I think this will be of values to you all.
3 responses
@ch88ss (2271)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I don't even let my son walk to the stores if he is not accompanied by someone else. The closest he can go is the corner store two blocks away from us. but I have not taught my son has the use public transportation because it is such a scary place in today's society. Though I have teache him most of the things discussed on your post but I am not sure if I can live with myself to let him do it and something horrible happens to him.
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
19 Jun 08
I know parental heart string but one day you will so just tried and make him understand the do's and don't's. Give him a kiss for me. kerry
@nupats (3564)
• India
19 Jun 08
hi dear thanx for the safety tips..well my child goes in the school bus and i make him board it peronally and they are picked in the school compound by their representatives so it is very safe for us..they have attendants even in the bus so actually very safe..
• United States
19 Jun 08
I appreciate your thoughtful discussion. It is very helpful for those in this situation. BUT, I could never allow my child 10 or younger on public transportation or even at the bus stop without adult supervision. I suppose some people don't have a choice.