Baby Mama Drama

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I am currently dating a guy who has just come out of a 9 year relationship with his ex girlfriend. We have been friends since october when this started to happen. He has finally left her and we have started a relationship. Last night we were watching a movie when the phone rang AGAIN. It was of course his ex girlfriend, she called to ask if he had drove a hour out to there old house where she still lives and if he had taken the dog. Of course he didn't but she swears he did. Today at 5am we got a call from her again. Sure enough the dog showed up when she was on her way to work. I'm so sick of her STUPID phone calls that mean nothing to him , me, or have anything to do about his children. He's sick of the calls and used to ignore them from time to time because she can get annyoing. I told him I didn't mind if he talked to her while I was around thinking thats why he was ignoring them. I also told him straight up that if he was gunna be with me he was not to ignore her calls if and when she has the children. He agreed and said I hope you can understand how all this is happening and that I am only in contact with her because of the kids. I really hopes he sticks to his word about not ignoring her. Yes shes his x but if s she has the kids something could be wrong and he hopefully wont miss a chance to help. Hopefully all works out well. He's glad I'm not jealous and I guess by showing that I care about him and the kids that he knows I care and wont cause any drama between him and the x. I will stand by his side and help him fight for whats his while staying out of the drama that she causes. We have recently moved in together and when we told her she kinda took a hissy fit. Thats fine with us tho she can act how she wants, ever since then she has called way more and I swear she is trying to break us up and have him move back home. But he is done with it and is going through lawyers to fight for the kids and deal with the house stuff. So for now I guess we just have to deal with it which we have and we are not allowing this to have any part of our relationship as friends/ partners due to the fact that its all drama and we can see what she is trying to do. Which I feel is make one of us weak enough to break with all of her stupid calls and emails and such. Ughhh I hate her, but hey she trained him for 9 years and now he's a real man. I see him argue with her and I see how he deals with it. He never gets mad and after its done its done, he doesn't carry out with the attitude he had with her. He goes back to the loving , caring, sweet man I get to keep.