Could you face the accusser?

@mnflower (1301)
United States
June 19, 2008 4:38pm CST
I am sitting here watching oprah and it made me real stop and think, just what in the world would I do if someone killed one of my loved ones, would I be able to confront the person that did it?That is really hard for me to even think about that but through my life I have found the strength to confront alot of uglyness with my family and others and I know that I couldn't do it for along time but a few years later I think that I would be able to confront them for I would need answers for the closure process for healing. What would you do
2 responses
@kerriannc (4280)
• Jamaica
19 Jun 08
If a person wants healing they will have to forgive. No matter what is the situation. There are times persons in our life do things to us knowingly and unknowingly. Whether it is murder our love ones are stopping our bread. But in order for us to fully recover and move on we have to forgive this person. Peace to me is more better than to have a angry face and heart that drag you down. So I think I will be able to face the person and forgive him/she but no I will never forget. The bible says that we should forgive but not forget and because of this there will be a judgment. God our father forgives us yes but he does not forget. Peace kerry
@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
19 Jun 08
That is a toughie. It is hard enough to face that your loved one is not coming back. And facing the accusser would be even harder. I however would be quite upset and I would want to face them and find out why. Why did they take my loved one away from? I think I would need to find out and face them face to face get my answers and then I could move on and start to heal.