disagreement, dispute,mis-understanding

June 20, 2008 4:13am CST
if you had a disagreeement with a close friend, or u were mis-understood, how would u go about handling it? Keep quiet, and let things take its course...?
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6 responses
• Malaysia
20 Jun 08
Yeah.. i basically just let it be because i am one who do not like confrontations.
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• United States
21 Jun 08
ive made all my new friends promise me that if i did something to piss them off or hurt them to tell me right away so i know.. cant fix what you dont know you did right?? that way there is no building up of emotions to where something small ends a friendship and the confrontation if there is any is less or non existant
@salonga (27766)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
No, I don't keep quiet, I go out of my way to discuss the issue with her. It's a healthy attitude. It's better that way than hold grudges. I think by pouring out your heart, and by exchange of explanations, you will end up forgiving each other.
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21 Jun 08
If thatis the way you solve yuur problems... then that is the right way..go ahead.. Iam sure you must be having a good number of good friends...
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@subha12 (18440)
• India
20 Jun 08
I have stopped taking any effort. now i have a doubt in word friendship the way my so called Best friend cheated me, i am doubtful still it is there, so i am noty with that much friend with some.
@excellence7 (3698)
• Mauritius
15 Jul 08
When I have disagreement with my love, I don't know why I can't control my anger and burst out my anger on her :( But after much time, I feel guilty and I talk to her well. This make her cries at times and so do I. I then pamper her lots because I love her extremely.
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
I would be willing to talk to my friend if I am the one who had done him wrong. But if he is the one who had done me wrong, I guess I will wait for him to talk to me. I want him to feel that it is his obligation to fix what he has broken.
@naseeha (1382)
• India
15 Jul 08
I always fight it out. I rather like to resolve my disputes with friends. Moreover if we keep quiet about it the problem will become bigger and bigger and the misunderstanding will be growing. So i feel it is better to talk it out and explain things. I have few friends and i dont normally have fights with them. Even if i do i talk it over with them. happy mylotting .