We've Moved!
@Phaedra_Scythe (3325)
June 21, 2008 7:47am CST
And as you might be able to tell, our Internet has now been hooked up!
It's certainly been an incredibly stressful time, as moving home is at the best of times, but the added stress our juvenile ex-house mates have added hasn't helped one bit.
Everything's still a mess here, but at least we have all our stuff in one place with the exception of a couple bits and pieces we'll still have to collect from the old house. Not looking forward to that as when the ex-house mates are in they seem to make it as difficult as possible for everyone.
The thing that's made me really angry is the lies that have been spread. The female makes up stories about my partner and then her boyfriend believes it all without question and takes it out on my fella. It makes me so angry. These two guys used to be best friends, but this awful girl has seen to that and then some. I think her stories are spreading so I'm probably going to have to set the record straight somehow. We can prove that she was lying now at least.
I just hate people spreading ugly rumours, especially when it's about the man I love. He's the sweetest, kindest, most generous teddy bear you'd ever meet. I'm hoping that anyone who's met him will instantly know that the stories are lies because he's such a good person with a heart of gold that there's no way any of it can be true.
I hope this post makes sense. I needed to vent.
I just feel it's all so unnecessary. I hope Karma catches up with this horrid girl for all her lying, stealing and manipulating. She's so ugly inside that she won't be able to fool people forever.
Anyway, I need to push past that. We have a beautiful new home, just the two of us and our angel cats.
I need to look to the future.
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8 responses
@Lifelight (130)
• Sweden
21 Jun 08
Karma WILL catch up with her - believe me! So many times i've been in situations similar to yours and felt the same way you do! Every single time I've later learned that the person (sad to say mostly girls and one's that called them selves my friend) has had it coming to them!
It is painful though - and when your boyfriend is involved in that way my guess is that you feel bad for him too losing his friend cause of this horrid girl. It's a good thing you can prove that she is lying but some times it is better to simply stay silent and it will all fade (I'm not saying this is the best in this case). Yes, move on with your life, it seems you have found a nice home for the two of you (would love to see pics of your cats lol) concentrate on building you a home now - this girl will for sure get what she deserves! As you say - she can't fool people for ever! Good luck in your new home and take care of each other!
@Lifelight (130)
• Sweden
21 Jun 08
Yes, I sensed that you are very protective of him, it's a good thing, you should look after each other in a relationship I think. your cats are definately stunners! As cute and cuddly as can be! I think you are one lucky girl - nice home, a boyfriend you love and two lovely cats! I rally do wish the two of you best of luck!
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@Phaedra_Scythe (3325)
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21 Jun 08
I just feel like a mother bear defending her cub, you know? He's such a gold hearted sweetie that I hate to hear these bullies trying to sabotage him. 
Thank you for your reply. You speak much sense!
I've included a photo of my babies when they were really babies. I think they're little stunners, if I do say so myself. 
Thank you for your reply. You speak much sense!
I've included a photo of my babies when they were really babies. I think they're little stunners, if I do say so myself. 
@raydene (9871)
• United States
21 Jun 08
Hello Sweets
I hope you will listen to one
of my thoughts about setting the
story straight.
First if you aren't guilty..
don't spend time trying to defend
what never occurred!
Secondly...the people that love you
need no explanations and those that don't
won't believe you anyway.
Take a deep breath and a step forward
and don't look back...it's like crossing
over that high scary bridge...don't look down
cause that's when you fall! So Doll do not fall
into the swirling emptiness of stab and defend
because right now you can let it die or you can
let it take on a life of it's own.
Good luck Darling..we are here...we need no explanations!
xoxoxoxoxoxo
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xxxx
@novataylor (6570)
• United States
21 Jun 08
Wow, Raydene, that gave me goosebumps! I was going to respond here, but I think you've summed it all up quite nicely, darlin. Your words are very wise, and I hope that Phaedra hears them deeply and takes them to heart.
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
22 Jun 08
i'm so sorry to hear about what happened between you and your ex-flatmate... sounds to me that she is really a horrible person... anyway, glad that you manage to go out from her already and you have your own place now with your partner... just forget about her and get on with your life... take care and have a nice day...
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@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
21 Jun 08
I know exactly how you feel about moving. I moved from Winnipeg to Calgary, two months ago and I am just finally getting settled in. I got my internet hooked up right after we found a house to move into, on June 1st so it has only been three weeks since we moved into it. One of the first things I did when we moved was get my inernet hooked up so that I could at least work in mylot and some other sites that I am working on. So I was away from mylot for awhile and now that I am back into it, I am working the site as much as I can., between putting things away and working, it doesn't leave me a lot of time to work in mylot, but I manage to fit in at least an hour a day. Good luck with putting things away and getting settled.
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@Phaedra_Scythe (3325)
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21 Jun 08
They say moving home is one of the most stressful things you can do in life. I suppose at least (touch wood) most of it is over now. I was going mad without a phone and Internet this past week or so! Thanks for your response and kind wishes!
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
22 Jun 08
Hi Phaedra I am glad you have been able to get away from'
those housemates and into a new house just for you and
your partner and your cats.Do not let stupid rumors spoil
what you and your partner have. do not listen to vicious'
people but enjoy your new home and be happy. the vicious
woman will one day receive what is coming to her so do
not worry about her at all.
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@Phaedra_Scythe (3325)
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24 Jun 08
It's so hard not to get defensive when rumours and lies are being spread. I'm finding it so very hard. I hope she gets what's coming to her. I really do. She needs to learn some valuable lessons about the way to treat people.
@Alinabrandon (53)
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21 Jun 08
Nice, good luck in the future. It will be a pain before everything is set normally.
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@Phaedra_Scythe (3325)
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24 Jun 08
Tell me about it. Building a bookcase can be as bad as trying to raise a barn!
@laglen (19759)
• United States
21 Jun 08
Great outlook! I am so sorry that your ex house mates are such troublemakers, but you have the right idea, just push forward. Move on. Be glad thats over! I think its great yo have such a great man and that you trust him. Good for you and best wishes!
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@Phaedra_Scythe (3325)
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21 Jun 08
Thank you. I need to try and force myself to think positively. It's not easy at the moment, especially since I'm prone to anxiety and depression, but it's not worth the sorrow is it? xxxx
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
21 Jun 08
Yes, look forward. The past will correct itself somehow. Good luck in your new home;)
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@Phaedra_Scythe (3325)
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21 Jun 08
Well thank you. There's a quote I want to put up on the fridge or mirror where my partner and I can both see it everyday and that's "This Season Will Also Change".
Perhaps I should make a sewing project of it. All things move on. 
