my highschool friend is getting married

Romania
June 21, 2008 11:49am CST
i'm almost 20 years old, i'm just finishing my first year at college and last week my old highschool friend is calling me to tell me she's getting married. i was shoked. she knows the guy for like 2 years and lives with him for 1 year, but still i think it's too early at this age. so today was the wedding. nothing fancy just family and close friends. she was beautiful. but what do you think? was it too early for her or not? when is the proper time to get married?
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• United States
21 Jun 08
Well, age isn't really the measure of it. More maturity. If they have already been living together for a year, there really won't be a drastic change in way of life. I was 19 when I got married....the first time. Yes, for me that was too soon. I went from my parent's house to my husband's. Gave up college, and now regret alot of the choices I made. But, had it not been for some of those same choices, I would't be who I am now, or be with the wonderful husband I am with now. Or have the wonderful stepson starting college this fall!
@CrashO (698)
• Romania
21 Jun 08
there isn't a proper time, when you are ready you are ready, and if you didn't know more than 50% of the marrige don't last, and it really depends on the state, so you can get married anytime, but dont know really how much it will last. :-)