He is such a moron

India
June 23, 2008 2:20am CST
I am really really fed up of my fiance. He is so irresponsible. It has been over a year now since he doesnt have a proper job , still he is not making any efforts to hunt for a proper job. Because of this my parents are pressurising me , but he is least bothered about it. On top of that , he has the guts to speak bad things about me to my family members. He manipulates everythings and tells them all stupid and illogical stuff. I never complained about him to his family members. He keeps fooling around with other girls at his work place. He keeps flirting around with them. He doesnt want to do anything worthwhile. I have gone czazy hunting for a job to fulfill our financial needs and he doesnt give me any credit for this. He is just pure selfish and doesnt bother what i am going through. He is such an assole, i just feel like slapping him. He comes to me only when he wants to get physically intimate. I am really fed up of him and i really want to get out of this mess. I never thought he would turn out to be a complete loser and a complete assole. He just wants to fool around all the time. He is so illogical and never talks sense. I really hope he rots in hell and never gets a girl in his life ever. I cant even sleep properly. I cry myself to sleep everyday. Why am i surrounded with all assoles and stupid people. There is no one who really cares. I just dont wanna get involved ever again and i just wanna stay single. My soul has died and i am just alive physically. I cannot go thru this torture anymore. I just dont deserve this. To hell with this assole.
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7 responses
• United States
26 Jun 08
well dang i guess its a good thing all yall are is fiances LMAO. if he is doing this now just imagine what its gannabe like married to him.. yes granted you may change him for a small time talking to him letting him know he has to change. but now i think this is the real him. of course hell change for awhile yall get married then youll be right back to the same ol same ol.. you deserve better. you said it yourself... drop him.
@Muelitz (1592)
• Canada
26 Jun 08
Try a heart to heart talk. Calmly ask him what is his plans or goals in life. From the answers that you get, you can then decide if you want to stick with this guy and give him another chance or leave him. If you decide to go for the latter, do not worry and loose sleep over it. Find a diversion and get entertained. He is not the only fish in the sea. There will be others that will be better suited for you.
@CrashO (698)
• Romania
23 Jun 08
Uhm, hard one, first of all you REALLY have to simplefy, you'r a female and you are overreacting of course like every other female around. This is more easy than you think!You have 2 choice:1. You just told us the problems. Talk with him, find a solution, tell him that you want to work this but some things have to change and both have something to give/offer to the table. 2. Tell him this and end the relationship, you'r an adult, you know how to do that, its hard, but if you dont want to solve the problems then end it before its not to late. Good luck and try not to stress yourself too much, I find myself a lot in that guy, maybe a little less at being butthole,manipulating and I really dont talk to my gf's family in either way posible, so give him a chance to change if you want to, if not, do it!
@subha12 (18441)
• India
23 Jun 08
i better say leave this guy. its really hard to adjuts with someone like him. there is all these lies, he does not try for job and all. it can never make you happy.
@gemini_rose (16264)
23 Jun 08
I am sorry that you are going through such a bad time with your fiance, he does sound like he is a bit of a no good. Maybe it is time for you to move on, if you get out of this relationship then you will be able to take some time for you. You will not have to worry about him making a fool of you no more, you will be able to do what you want, when you want! I think that sounds like a nice idea! If he is making you feel this sad, and down and unhappy then get rid, you are right you do not deserve it. Life is too short to be so unhappy.
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
23 Jun 08
i think you are now really sure of what you want..then be it..leave him and find another man...as you yourself told us,,,you don't deserve this treatment...good luck!
23 Jun 08
Its tough. You can get out anyway. Find out what he really wants. Try to bring the best out of him. Very importantly, he must know how to control himself. Motivate him for a job. It might work. May be you could find a better partner.