real friend

I also agree with you. I have many people as a friend. But i dont know they think that i am their friend or not. I just have them as my friend. I dont care they wanna be my friend or not, it is not my problem. I just wanna make a relation with all people.

That is so true!!I have lots of friends but then I know for a fact that some of them are not that honest with me. Before, I used to give all my trust to all of my friends but now I tend to be choosy. Quality is more important than quantity.Right?

well,what you say is true... and i am sure it comes from experience,an experience that we all had at least one in our lifes.. but for me it wasn't the money problem... it was the problems problem..meaning that whenever they felt sad or bad or felt like talking to somebody i had to be there for them, to listen, to give a piece of advice..to join them for a walk if they felt like it..to get up in the middle of the night if they needed to tell me something on the phone.. but when i was sad or felt like having somebody around,where where they?...well,busy with other things..with other people.. they had something to do.. or,maybe they even met me but instead of listening to my problems they started talking about theirs again.. so no,i don't have any more close friends anymore... i am here if they wanna talk, but i won't expect anything in return,nobody will be managing to really help me anyway.. it's us who must help ourselves,and we know better how to solve our problems. i got to this conclusion in time.. and i am good like this. if i feel like talking,i take a pen and write in my diary..it helps me release my soul and i also get to look back from time to time to see how i felt like in some days of my life.. it helps u see how u improoved in time or not,and how you changed as a person. i think a diary is a usefull think to have;)