Has your relationship gone dull?
June 24, 2008 6:11am CST
Have you tired of each other? Who needs to do something about it? Is it easy to keep your relationship alive? Is it work? "After 20 years of marriage, a couple was lying in bed one evening, when thewife felt her husband begin to fondle her in ways he hadn't in quite sometime.It almost tickled as his fingers started at her neck, and then began movingdown past the small of her back.He then caressed her shoulders and neck, slowly worked his hand down overher breasts, stopping just over her lower stomach.He then proceeded to place his hand on her left inner arm, caressed past theside of her breast again, working down her side, passed gently overher buttock and down her leg to her calf. Then, he proceeded up her innerthigh, stopping just at the uppermost portion of her leg. He continued inthe same manner on her right side, then suddenly stopped, rolled over andstarted to watch the tv.As she had become quite aroused by this caressing, she asked in a lovingvoice, 'That was wonderful. Why did you stop?' He said, 'I found the remote'." Thoughts?
29 Jun 08
ROFL That sounds quite familiar to what some people I know have said Mom. I have to say we do get quite forgetful of each other sometimes but that is pretty normal I think - all it takes to bring that closeness back is a certain look or kiss and we are right back with the butterflies in our tummies and remembering the good things about each other! Hugs xxx
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24 Jun 08
I don't think the problem is an isolated one and that a lot of people chuckled rather sadly at that joke! It takes a lot of work an imagination to keep a relationship lively and many of us tend to let things get dull out of habit, laziness or fear of what might happen if we did something different. Keep 'em guessing is one way to step things up.
24 Jun 08
wow! i'm in suspense. can you tell me whether he switched on or found the remote and left it there? if i found the remote i'll definitely put it on. that would make the room bright and dismiss the darkness that might have clouded over the years. what a bright and renewed relationship it would be.