Why am I so lucky ?
By missbdoll
@missbdoll (1165)
Australia
June 24, 2008 7:29am CST
I'm single and very alone, since the death of my partner last year, a freind of mine who's been married for a long time always tells I'm lucky and that I'm better off not having anyone.Why am I so lucky as I donn't have family so there really is no Christmas or Birthdays or any one to cook for or have meals with, no one to talk anything over with.I'm aching and bruised often from physical things I strugle with, cause there's no money to pay for help when something I too heavy for a woman.So I'm wandering why anyone would think I was lucky ?
5 responses
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
24 Jun 08
you are lucky to be alive so make the best of it. living alone is sure not a bad thing especially if you have had trouble w/someone. get your friends together when u need something done. i'm sure they'd be glad to help you. where there is a will there is a way.

@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
25 Jun 08
put all that behind you. u can not live in the past. get out & meet new prople.& take one day at the time & look to what tomorrow might bring. u are just making yourself miserable over something u can do nothing about. quit letting it control you. good luck & best wishes.
@PRIYANK1992 (1677)
• India
25 Jun 08
We are four one father,one mother,one brother and one sister.I have a very nice sister.She is the greatest sister ever in the world.I like her most.
@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
24 Jun 08
I for one have no idea why anyone would say you are lucky being alone. Of course we all like some alone time but not when it comes to you in the way it came to you. A friend of mine and her husband used to argue all the time, it was just them. Neither liked to let the other have the last word. You would have thought they hated each other if you didn't know them. He passed away this past April and she is beside herself. She feels so depressed at times and alone and she has other around her. My heart goes out to you and hopefully you can at least find someone to be friends with soon.
@anex08 (868)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
Maybe they do not know how it feels to be alone and sad that's why they consider you as lucky. I am sorry for your loss and its really hard to be alone. I do not want to be alone. But you know what? there are reason why we have to undergo certain situation, you must have to be strong and always have your prayer my dear. Don't worry, all things well pass and there is still hope. Be on your feet, stand up and move on. Its not easy I know, but be strong.
God bless
@baileycows (3665)
• United States
24 Jun 08
I have no idea. I would hate to be alone. I would not consider that lucky. Sorry. I am sorry for your loss. Maybe they are unhappy and wish they were alone, but I think that they would find that if they were alone they would hate it.






