What would you do?

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Do you still have friend that you met when your were in high school?Or even friends that you met when your were a little kid?Are you still as close to them now,as you were back then?What would you do if one day you were best friends with someone you had known for many many years,and then a situation came up to where you had to move away,even if it was just twenty minutes away,and all of a sudden someone you thought was your friend, never called you,never messaged you in any way,and always made excuses to not come visit you in your new home,because they did not like where you were living ?What would you do if you told them it was best to end the friendship so both of you could move on,and the friend stooped to childish tactics such as insulting your heritage,your home,and the person you were with,and blamed you for the friendship going down the drain?Would you insult them back,and tell them how it is,would you tell them in a nice way how it is,or would you ignore them,and ignore any contact they tried to make with you?And how would you feel,would you blame them?Would you blame yourself?Or would realize it is for the best?What would you do if you were invited to their house,and then told you could not come in because it was a mess,especially if you had to drive twenty minutes to get there?Me and my fiance have both suffered from this situation,and we still can not figure out why,mine was not as bad,since my friend just turned out to be a liar and he was always borrowing money from me and never payed me back,and once I cut ties with him,and he got lied to,he realized he was wrong,and now we are friends again,in my fiances case, her friend not only did she stoop to insulting my fiances heritage,and my heritage ,she insulted where we live,and she always made excuses to not come here,she was also always borrowing money from my fiance,and I think that when my fiance stopped giving her money she got mad,those are not the only reasons she decided to cut ties with them,it is also because one Sunday it was planned for us to go to her house,and when I say planned I mean a week in advance, and when we got there,we were told that her house was a mess,and that we could not go in my question is how could you forget that your house is a mess?And why would you not call and if you knew someone was coming over?Why would you not call and ask to reschedule?Plus when we got there,her friend was out quadding with another friend,so she was not even there,which is in my opinion rude,when you know you are going to have company,and her friend mis relayed a message from another friend,which I think was just a ploy to get us to leave,so she could go drink,We had all agreed to stop our nasty habits for a couple of hours so that we would not insult each other,what makes it worse,was we had two of my brothers with us,and we took two cars,so not only did we waste mine and my fiances gas,we wasted my brothers gas too,just so we could stand around in the heat for twenty minutes,listening to her friend talk. My brothers instantly had a dislike of her friends, and it really made my fiance feel like crap because she had promised a fun time,and all we got was stress.